Margeandmom; I was just thinking the same thing! Wake up with lots of things to catch up on!
I think the rainbows are adorable and great for either a boy or girl! I caved this weekend and bought a cute little onesie. It was 100% unisex (blue with the Colorado state flag on it and said "home grown", my husband's whole family is from here so he loves his state).
My EDD is 12/9; I'm definitely going to look up the buddies group! This is just such a great bunch of ladies, and I'm so glad to be a part of it
As for the gender with regards to buying things...I think I might do this test! I don't know if you have it in the UK, but you send in a blood sample from a finger prick after you hit 9 weeks and they can tell if you have male DNA in your blood from the fetal plasma. It's 97% accurate (about the same as the US scan they can do later in the pregnancy). My husband looked up the science and found it in a heavily peer reviewed journal, so it's sound! In the states, it's only $79. I am sooo tempted as I am really not a patient person, and since this is my first...I just really want to know!!!
https://sneakpeektest.com/