Anyone else now trying again STRAIGHT after a mc? NTNP?

[ickle pand]

Hiya Ladies.

I had a lovely time at my class today. It was freezing though - no heating! And I hurt my foot yesterday shopping so I was hobbling about the classroom. I got it checked out and it's just tendonitis.

Anyway, here's the pics of my cake https://photobucket.com/christmascake2011

I got another BFN this morning. Still got sore boobs and nipples though. Oh and stalk chart, especially the chart comparison at the top. My last 3 temps are the highest, relative to the coverline, they've ever been

 

[Tarabay]

wow ickle, that looks amazing!! i wouldnt want to cut in to it it look that perfect!! Good job girl!! u should be super proud of that!

 

[filipenko32]

Looking good ickle and that's not just the cake either!! Keeping my fingers and everything crossed for you!!! You're very talented at decorating!

 

[filipenko32]

Tara, the opk's do get very slightly darker after a while but ive found that they're still reliable enough to read as they don't get that much darker. Best to read it within 20 minutes though - the instructions say 10 but 20 is better. It doesn't sound like you're near ov yet but keep going as all that could change and it can change quickly too. Temping goddess Ickle might have something to say about the slack temping this morning though Tara x x

mrs migg yeah it is sad but we will be even happier as we've had to fight for it! x x

 

[filipenko32]

Louby any news on the test front yet?

 

[hopeithappens]

thanks ladies, just read through quite a few pages on here and it really does seem like a gr8 place to be you are all really supportive of each other, spoke to doc on thurs and told me to count my 1st day of bleeding from miscarriage as cd1 bleeding had completly gone by cd5 im now on cd6 dtd lastnight and hoping to every other day wether it will happen or not who knows because normally its left til bed time and the other half decides hes too tired then i end up in a huff on the settee downstairs lol so now i think im gona take to pouncing on him as soon as ds is in bed lol, doc said theres just been a study done which shows the sooner couples try after an early mc the better, so heres hoping, trying so hard not to get my hopes up but night out planned for 16th my little mans 3rd birthday on 18th xmas a week later, then new year and my birthday less than a week after so im hoping im not going to be thinking bout it 2much, if my cycle does go back to where it was af is due on my birthday which can think of nothing worse than af arriving on my birthday, can only dream of a birthday BFP! lol x

 

[filipenko32]

Morning girls! I am an early bird this morning!

Hi Hope, welcome and good luck this cycle!

Ickle - will you start eating that cake or save it till xmas? I hope your temps are still high today and you get a soon. How is your foot this morning?

mrsMigg, might be time for a hpt today but you will have to hold your wee! Hoping and praying for a for you.

afm: I am a happy girl this morning as I have not had any nightmares or dreams for the 1st time ever (at this time) in all my pregnancies. The dreams are usually bad and warn me i will miscarry. Also I have no cramping for the 1st time ever so i'm hoping this is a good sign! I have always usually started cramping at 10dpo but nope, nothing this time and i'm 13dpo now - def would be crampng by now. The steroids take away morning sickness so only a tiny bit of retching now and again.

Fingers crossed last night's spell worked for us all

 

[ickle pand]

I'm going to save it for Christmas day. I'm too proud of it to cut into it yet lol!

Foot seems better today but I've only been to the toilet and back to bed so far. Just had to run and hide all my tests and pee bowls etc because we've got a Sky engineer in to realign our dish.

Another BFN this morning. Boobs are still sore and had a touch of nausea too. Temps are still looking good. Tiny wee dip this morning but that seems to be normal for me. I should get a rise tomorrow and then either it'll dip down for AF or it'll stay high.

 

[filipenko32]

oooooooooooh i'm getting excited for you ickle!!

 

[ickle pand]

Thanks fili I just want to see a line now, but trying to keep busy and distract myself.

 

[filipenko32]

Did anyone not get af cramps during the very early days of pregnancy and everything be ok? I was going to type 'and everything be opk' then!! Oh dear. I think it's good that i'm not getting any cramps like i used to do...

 

[loubyloumum]

Morning ladies! Ickle that cake is fantastic what a talent you have I'm braving the wind and rain today to finish my last few bits of Xmas shopping, then home to a lovely roast cooked by the OH - I think it's a good compromise
So I took another HPT this morning and I think it negative can't see a definate line on there. Keep thinking I can see something but it's prob all in my head. Also did an opk and again a second line appears almost instantly, have no idea what this means though? Had a bit of a temp drop this morning too so I'm guessing I'm out at 12dpo with no obvious second line and abit of a temp dip - nevermind I wasn't expecting it anyway so don't feel too disappointed.
Any new BFP this morning?
Hope you all have a lovely Sunday xx

 

[filipenko32]

Louby the opk sounds a bit suspicious to me. Tell me what brands / makes / strengths you're using for the preg test and the opk

 

[pinksmarties]

Morning Ladies

Hope - Glad AF has finished, I know what you mean about the OH being too tired, we dtd very late at night and that is my biggest worry but atm OH is being great about it all.

Fili - such great signs!!! When will you get a scan? I still want to see pics of the tests, how bad is that!!

Ickle - I would love to see tyour cake but my internet won't let me. Thankgod the change over to BT happens monday so hopefully I'll be bale to see everything with guessing which sites will/won't load.

Sarah - those signs you are talking about sounds promising for OV. Are you using opk's

Mrsmig - any tests today?

Louby - Can't help you with the opks, I was getting nothing on either yesterday and have decided not to test today.

I was awol yesterday as I was sooo down and upset that it felt AF was due. Despite me trying not to get optimistic or hopeful the fact AF seemed imminent really got to me and I had a little cry last night. It might have been due to the fact OH was out with his football crowd for a mini Christmas do so I was alone dwelling. I used to be really good being on my own (sometimes couldn't kick OH out quick enough for night outs) but since mc I find it so much more difficult. Anyway not sure what is happening as got temp rise this morning but I am not testing ( I got obvious BFN yesterday on hpt and opk), in fact I wasn't even going to temp but I naturally woke up at temp time so did it. Sorry for my miserable post.

 

[loubyloumum]

I am using the brand one step off amazon. The opk tests 20mIU and the hpt test 10mIU so I'm guessing if I were prego I would show on the Hpt by now? Lookin at the opk now the test line is not as dark as the control line so I may possibly have a small level of hormone all the time??? Is that possible? Or do I now sound incredibly stupid

 

[loubyloumum]

Awww pink, I'm sorry you are feeling down lovely. Sending you big hugs And hope you feel a little better today xxx

 

[filipenko32]

Aww pink, we're here for you. I know what you mean about being on your own. I think I spent a month crying last month and this was especially when DH went out at night as you know I don't socialise at all anymore since the miscarriages because I can't cope - pretty sad ey? Just wanted you to know that I am just like that I know as we all do that's it's especially harder at this time in your cycle when we really want ALL the signs to be there. I'm not sure your temp should still be high if your af is due. Last month mine had dropped massively by 10dpo from 36.80's to 36.20's! Also you're emotional........ Hmmmm pinkyponk, don't think you're out just yet! x x x

 

[loubyloumum]

Oh and Fili I didn't get any cramping at all with my son and had a perfect outcome so it sounds good to me lovely

 

[filipenko32]

Louby, my opk's showed before my hpt's and the hpt line was incredibly faint at 10dpo. On a scale of 1-10 if 10 is as dark as the control line, how dark is the opk?

 

[filipenko32]

Oh and Fili I didn't get any cramping at all with my son and had a perfect outcome so it sounds good to me lovely

Ohhh great! Thanks Louby!