anyone lost in 2011 and trying again?

[Eternal]

my baby died on the 5th Jan (my 27th birthday) and had my ercp on the 7th. We are trying again already, who else?

 

[diverdi]

I had medical management on the 1st and also trying, tomorrow will be 4 weeks so thinking about testing but very nervous and obsessively symptom spotting.

 

[Eternal]

awww ... fingers crossed hun! <hugs> its so stressful isnt it? not really sure when i period will turn up etc. have you had a bfn yet? ive not tried, too scared!

 

[Coltsmommy]

I am trying..I got my first AF after the miscarriage which started on Christmas and passed baby on New Years on the 24th and today seems its gone. I have a VERY strong feeling that I will get pregnant this month with a boy. Good luck to you all!

 

[diverdi]

Thanks Eternal, still plucking up the courage to do any tests, don't know what scares me more, bfn or bfp!! Being in limbo and not knowing when anything is going to happen is soooo frustrating. Good luck with trying again.

Hope your feeling holds true Coltsmummy. Will keep FX'd for all of us

 

[Eternal]

fingers crossed ladies, i have a very strong feeling ill fall pregnant within the next 3 months, dont know if thats wishful thinking or coping startergy or that it may happen. i hope it will.

yeah im terrified of seeing a bfp or bfn at the moment, keep saying i wont test until i have morning sickness, but im a poas addict when i get started so who knows lol! ill wait this month out and start checking for ovulation next month.

lots of luck ladies!

 

[anangelsmummy]

I lost my little girl at 42weeks on the 30.12.10, she was perfect, still dont have a reason for it, found out when i went to be induced that her wee heart had stopped. I am desperate to become pregnant again, think its whats getting me through the grief, god I miss my lil girl so so much and will never replace her just need to fill my empty arms and aching heart. Just wish I could fall pregnant and not know till about 12 weeks im so scared something will go wrong, I wish everyone here who is trying all the luck and best wishes in the world and hope everyones dreams come true. xxx

 

[Eternal]

I lost my little girl at 42weeks on the 30.12.10, she was perfect, still dont have a reason for it, found out when i went to be induced that her wee heart had stopped. I am desperate to become pregnant again, think its whats getting me through the grief, god I miss my lil girl so so much and will never replace her just need to fill my empty arms and aching heart. Just wish I could fall pregnant and not know till about 12 weeks im so scared something will go wrong, I wish everyone here who is trying all the luck and best wishes in the world and hope everyones dreams come true. xxx

oh honey, im so sorry

a friend had the same happen to her, she got pregnant within a few of months and now has a beautiful and healthy two year old. i cant imagine your pain. im grieving enough and mine was only 11 weeks, i have no idea what your going though but im here if you want to talk

i wish you the best of luck, and hope you get pregnant again soon, i imagine you will be induced early next time as thats what happened to my friend. im sorry for your loss and wish you all the best of luck in the future

 

[Coltsmommy]

I just bought 100 internet cheap pregnancy tests. Ya know I was so down, and knew I was never going to have a baby and this is the weird part...a deep and I mean DEEP down in the soul feeling came over me telling me I WILL get pregnant this month with a boy. I am a Christian and I honestly think it was the Lord speaking to me to let me know everything is going to be ok

 

[Eternal]

im a christian, and the month i got pregnant i felt someone telling me i was going to be pregnant, it was while i was praying, then i tested a couple of days later and i was. think thats why its so hard now ive lost the baby. but im hoping the feeling im getting will be something simular.

Good luck xxx

 

[Coltsmommy]

I had the same thing happen to me when I got pregnant, i just knew I was...i even tested at 7 or 8dpo i was so sure. I think it was God's way of preparing me to help others through my loss. I never once thought it would happen to me and when it did it hit hard...but now I can help other mothers who are grieving the loss.

 

[Eternal]

i agree, it was the same for me, with my first i worried all the wa through i would lose it but that time i was convinced it was going to be fine. was such a shock. but i know i can help and understand something i couldnt before. i just hope my trails dont continue, i really want to be pregnant and hold that healthy wonderful baby

 

[Coltsmommy]

I completely understand and I pray that you get your healthy bean soon

 

[diverdi]

I lost my little girl at 42weeks on the 30.12.10, she was perfect, still dont have a reason for it, found out when i went to be induced that her wee heart had stopped. I am desperate to become pregnant again, think its whats getting me through the grief, god I miss my lil girl so so much and will never replace her just need to fill my empty arms and aching heart. Just wish I could fall pregnant and not know till about 12 weeks im so scared something will go wrong, I wish everyone here who is trying all the luck and best wishes in the world and hope everyones dreams come true. xxx

So sorry to hear your story. That must be so traumatic I can't begin to imagine your heartbreak.
I just had a girl at my surgery go to hospital with stomach pains and coem out with a baby, she had no clue and was even doing army training. Sounds like the perfect pregnancy to me.
Eternal and Coltsmummy. I sit on the fence when it comes to religion but I like to hink this experience makes me better at my job and will be able to help epople who have gone through the same thing.

 

[weezypuff]

Hi everyone, wish you all luck with trying again. It's a really strange thing even dtd after a loss it's difficult isn't it? I had a MMC at 8 weeks (Christmas week) but this was only discovered at 11 week ultrasound. Only just stopped bleeding after ERPC but hoping to try again in September.. Thinking it may happen sooner as OH doesnt like condoms and wants a little one as much as me! I guess we will see.. good luck ladies x

 

[Xpecta]

I have no idea what it is, but I can't get enough of my Husband physically! So basically for about a week and a bit, EVERY day as soon as our son went to bed, it was straight into the bedroom. And of course, we haven't used protection for about 2 years, so why start now? So basically at this point its just, not trying, not preventing. Although a couple nights there (Where I swear I was ovulating) I did lay with my pelvis raised, but I don't think it will happen this month, even though I badly want it.

Also, anangelsmummy, I can't even believe what you're going through! I can't imagine the kind of pain you have! I really really feel for you. I even told my husband and his whole body dropped and I could tell his heart ached for you.

I don't think there is anything that I can say to make you feel even slighty better, but if you ever need to talk, there are so many women here that are more than willing to talk with you when you need it most. I really hope the best for you in the future!

Also, Coltsmommy, in October I got the same feeling. I just knew God was telling me I was pregnant with a Girl. But I wasn't. I was purely devastated! I really hope that you're hearing him better than I did!

 

[JessieMG84]

hi ladies so sorry to hear all ur mc stories, esp anangelsmummy xxxx i lost ours at 8 weeks, had an early scan cos i was bleeding, that was on the 6th Jan, we have been trying, not very frequently i'll admit, i dont know if anyone knows but when is a period supposed to be due after a loss? im too scared to take a test, but i also like the fact i dont know when im due on and when i ovulated, so that i dont obsess over it too much.

 

[Xpecta]

hi ladies so sorry to hear all ur mc stories, esp anangelsmummy xxxx i lost ours at 8 weeks, had an early scan cos i was bleeding, that was on the 6th Jan, we have been trying, not very frequently i'll admit, i dont know if anyone knows but when is a period supposed to be due after a loss? im too scared to take a test, but i also like the fact i dont know when im due on and when i ovulated, so that i dont obsess over it too much.

I kinda like it too. Its much less stress not really knowing I feel. But at the same time, I would like to feel free to test you know?

 

[JessieMG84]

hi ladies so sorry to hear all ur mc stories, esp anangelsmummy xxxx i lost ours at 8 weeks, had an early scan cos i was bleeding, that was on the 6th Jan, we have been trying, not very frequently i'll admit, i dont know if anyone knows but when is a period supposed to be due after a loss? im too scared to take a test, but i also like the fact i dont know when im due on and when i ovulated, so that i dont obsess over it too much.

I kinda like it too. Its much less stress not really knowing I feel. But at the same time, I would like to feel free to test you know?

Yeah! It's getting to the point now where I either want a period to come or I'm just going to go mad buying tests! Ideally I should not be thinking about it and just trying until we either get a period or weeks have gone by! But I'm getting restless! I keep thinking "surely iv ovulated by now?"

 

[Teesgirl]

I got my BFP on 01/01/11 we found out ot wasectopic on the 7th after my tube ruptured. We are ready to try again but I don't want any complications and had my GYN refer us to a fertility specialist. Our first appt is Febrary 14th