anyone lost in 2011 and trying again?

[Xpecta]

hi ladies so sorry to hear all ur mc stories, esp anangelsmummy xxxx i lost ours at 8 weeks, had an early scan cos i was bleeding, that was on the 6th Jan, we have been trying, not very frequently i'll admit, i dont know if anyone knows but when is a period supposed to be due after a loss? im too scared to take a test, but i also like the fact i dont know when im due on and when i ovulated, so that i dont obsess over it too much.

I kinda like it too. Its much less stress not really knowing I feel. But at the same time, I would like to feel free to test you know?

Yeah! It's getting to the point now where I either want a period to come or I'm just going to go mad buying tests! Ideally I should not be thinking about it and just trying until we either get a period or weeks have gone by! But I'm getting restless! I keep thinking "surely iv ovulated by now?"

Well, I'm pretty sure I ovulated only one week after my M/C. And I've been getting cramps since then. I also had what I SWEAR was implantation bleeding...But honestly, I'm wrong about my body ALL the time. So basically I'm kinda going crazy wondering if I could possibly already be pregnant again. I've read a LOT of women get pregnant 1 week after a Miscarriage. So hopefully you're one of the lucky ones that doesn't even get a period!

Have you tried testing yet?

 

[Xpecta]

I got my BFP on 01/01/11 we found out ot wasectopic on the 7th after my tube ruptured. We are ready to try again but I don't want any complications and had my GYN refer us to a fertility specialist. Our first appt is Febrary 14th

Happy fricken Valentines to you eh? I'm sorry to hear about your ectopic! Thats scary! I hope everything will be okay with you!

 

[xSamanthax]

So sorry for all your losses

Heres hoping you all get BFP and healthy pregnancys, I started spotting on the 13th, found out i was going through a MC, had spotting on te 14th, heavy bleeding on the 15th then nothing since that, no spotting or bleeding. I've had some pretty intense cramps for 2 days this past week but still nothing. I'm still getting BFP so waiting for that to go BFN and then waiting for my AF to show up. Until all that i'm not going to TTC again. Once i've had all that though i will defo be TTC!!

to you all

 

[JessieMG84]

well funny story really...! i had bad cramps today when i was getting in the bath - which is 3 weeks and 2 days since i MC, and then felt the egg white gloop down below (sorry for TMI!) so i rang my hubby, who works all day and night at his restaurant, and he came home right away! to ahem (cos we hadn't for a few days) so i hope it was ovulation or at least implantation , and not the coming of a period

 

[mummyk2b]

sorry for all your losses and heartbreak.

i'm just counting down the days for af to arrive so we can try again!

probably tmi but on thursday (14 days after erpc) i had cramps on one side and think they may have been sign of ov. all of a sudden, i felt remarkably attracted to DH (even though we'd agreed we'd wait one cycle!). anyway, we were getting rather smoochy and he got protection out!!! i hadn't realised how much i wanted to try again until I thought, "oh. great. we may as well not bother!" lol! he said he's just nervous about increasing any risks due to impatience, and would rather wait until i've had follow up with consultant which is on 4th Feb.

if they were ov cramps though, af should be here around 10th and then it will be all systems go in terms of knowing ov dates, etc. i hope it happens quite quickly again... i'm sooooooooooooooooooooooooo ready to be a mummy!

i hope all us ladies stay in touch as we move through the boards. best of luck and baby dust to us all!

 

[deshka]

i think that sounds like your ovulating. Well i had a Mc at 19 weeks on 13 jan 2011 and i dunno what i want or what i need. i had a BFNo after 6 days so i guess i was pretty cleared out by then. Ov tests say no ov since, but high temp yest and today. Still not sure what to do . i do i dont i just dunno ... i waited near 10 years to find the right guy and time to have another and i get pregnant first time we decided , just to have our only son taken from us... grrr life eh?

 

[jbsowers]

I lost my little girl at 42weeks on the 30.12.10, she was perfect, still dont have a reason for it, found out when i went to be induced that her wee heart had stopped. I am desperate to become pregnant again, think its whats getting me through the grief, god I miss my lil girl so so much and will never replace her just need to fill my empty arms and aching heart. Just wish I could fall pregnant and not know till about 12 weeks im so scared something will go wrong, I wish everyone here who is trying all the luck and best wishes in the world and hope everyones dreams come true. xxx

I'm so sorry for your loss. I could not imagine losing a baby after all that time being pregnant. I just lost my baby at 10 weeks on 1/21/11 The baby had a weak heart beat for almost 2 weeks and then it just stopped. It's so scarry being pregnant after you have had a loss. I have lost 3 babies so far and it's always a worry for me. We are going to try again next month. There is nothing wrong with wanting to fill that empty place in your heart. It really does help the healing process.

 

[pinkflamingo]

we had scans in Dec which confirmed our loss but I wanted to miscarry naturally and it only happened this weekend. We are hoping to try straight away once the bleeding has stopped.

I go through emotions of being excited at the prospect of ttc again, but then apprehension and sadness batter me back down again!

Good luck all xx

 

[Eternal]

wow, its so sad to see how many of us have lost babies in the last 35 days.

Lets hope this year will bring us much better luck, im still hoping for a 2011 baby but i doubt that will happen. even so just being pregnant this year will be great.

 

[TTC Again]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I could not imagine losing a baby after all that time being pregnant. I just lost my baby at 10 weeks on 1/21/11 The baby had a weak heart beat for almost 2 weeks and then it just stopped. It's so scarry being pregnant after you have had a loss. I have lost 3 babies so far and it's always a worry for me. We are going to try again next month. There is nothing wrong with wanting to fill that empty place in your heart. It really does help the healing process.

I'm in a very similar situation - I had a D&C on 12/30 (so close enough to 2011 to join this thread). My baby had made it to 8 weeks with a weak heartbeat, but at 8w2d there was no longer a heartbeat. This was our third loss in a row, but my first D&C. Now, 4.5 weeks later I'm still getting +HPTs and OPKs (since I had them in the house - I am a POAS'aholic), no sign of my period anywhere. Not sure if I could have possibly ovulated yet...waiting, waiting, waiting.

DH thinks maybe I'm pregant again, but I don't think that's even possible. Went to an RE, but they basically said that until I get a period there isn't much to be done.

Wishing us all a 2011 baby!!!

 

[Eternal]

awww sorry, sounds stressful.

i gave in and tested after i said i wouldnt until my period, i have a negative hpt and a positive ovulation! i bled for two and a half weeks and therefore ovulated just over 3 weeks after ercp.

fingers crossed ladies.

 

[TTC Again]

That's great that you got a + OPK now. At least you can feel on top of your cycle again. I took a new brand of OPK this morning and it was -, so that could be good....meaning that the HCG might be lower now/out of my system...which means AF could arrive (or O) soon. I'm just anxious to get back on track again and start TTC.

 

[Eternal]

yeah its so nice to know my body is doing what it should, compared to how it reacted after i had my son! fingers crossed it stays that way!

Good luck, hope you get a positive soon xxx

 

[hollyrose]

i had a miscarriage nearly 3 weeks ago and we are ntnp until 1st af comes then will be ttc. hoping i will get a bfp really soon! good luck to everyone who is wishing the same!

 

[TTC Again]

Sorry, Holly. Hope it happens for you again soon. Here's to lots of BFPs for us all in 2011!!!

 

[9babiesgone]

I lost our last baby at 12 weeks on January 17th!! and had a dnc on the 18th. I am trying again in a few days if oh allows!!!

 

[jbsowers]

It sounds like you could be pregnant again. Not sure how long it would take to get a bfn. Everyone is different. Do you have any pregnancy symptoms?

We have decided we are ntnp for now. I don't want to miss one chance of getting pregnant again. I hate that empty feeling inside.

 

[spellfairy]

iam understanding why they say wait until after af. so ive decided to npnt method , well what else can i do now lol. Mc 13 jan Negative pregnancy test 6 days later, past 20 odd days negative ovulation tests. Gasie and cramps past 3 days and tonight CM and pinkish? dunno if iam ov, implantion or AF coming... LOST and still empty

 

[lintu]

Hi ladies, can I join in.

I had my ERPC on the 31/01/11 and will be trying to NTNP after my bleeding stops, it took me 12 mths last time and I have everything crossed it wont be another 12

May start my OPK in May for the next few mths I just want to see where mother nature takes me

 

[Eternal]

Hi ladies, can I join in.

I had my ERPC on the 31/01/11 and will be trying to NTNP after my bleeding stops, it took me 12 mths last time and I have everything crossed it wont be another 12

May start my OPK in May for the next few mths I just want to see where mother nature takes me

your still bleeding? eck, you poor thing? have you been back to the doctor?

i was told if i bled for more than 2 weeks to go to my gp and they would refer me back. i spotted the whole time nothing heavy and lasted two and a half weeks. i didnt go as i was pritty sure it was almost done.

i hope you stop soon sorry for your loss