Hi everyone!
I'm new here, but have been lurking for a bit before I ever made my account. I figured this would be the best area for me, since we must do IVF...
A quick intro...
I married DH on June 13, 2009. We went to the ER thinking he had appendicitis on June 18. He didn't need his appendix removed. He needed part of his colon removed. He had a tumor. On June 24, he had a colon resection. It ended up being stage 3b colon cancer. Chemo and radiation were a must.
Anyone here with cancer experience knows that those words generally mean infertility, at least for short term. So we were asked if we wanted to bank sperm. Yes. Well, because of a complication from the surgery, DH's sperm had to be surgically removed.
So, because of all of this, we have to do IVF/ICSI.
DH has been cancer free since the day of his surgery (they got it all, the treatments were preventative), and that's fabulous.
We have almost got the medical bills from that paid off, and will soon be dumping money in to savings for IVF. I'm still doing research on clinics. The local clinic here (there's only one) is really very expensive compared to some that are just a couple of hours away. So. Nothing is set in stone. And I guess it doesn't need to be anyway, until we have WAY more money in our savings account.
Even though we are infertile, I still can't help but get my hopes up every month for a miracle. Some times I feel crazy, heck, I KNOW it's crazy. But hearing about people who were told they'd never have kids and then years later get prego just make me feel like miracles can happen. I wish one would happen for us. But, I guess IVF is a miracle in itself, isn't it?
I look forward to getting to know you ladies in here. And congrats to the posters that are celebrating right now for different reasons!