anyone over 35 going for fertility treatments this year? IUI, IVF etc

Hockey- How's it all going for you?

I'm on BCP's until we start the cycle in mid February. So right now, I get to stalk all of your progress - which is awesome because I just build on all of your excitement and good news! :happydance:

I'm not familiar with the nasal spray - is this something you do before you start meds?
 
Ready, i know it costs a little more, but hw about doing back to back IUI?

Thanks sadie. It's not a cost issue.
DH has a normal count, but it goes in the toilet with daily ejaculations. So, not really worth the effort of getting there twice.

You know you've done too many IUIs, when you know what your husband's sperm count is after 7 straight days of sex, 3 straight days of sex, 4 days of abstinence, and 2 days of abstinence. :wacko:
 
Thanks Sarah- DH keeps asking about the thawing and freezing process and I don't know so I thought I'd ask you :) Are you getting excited? I'd be over the moon because at least you know you've got something there and your in with a shot!! Can't wait to see how you go!

Ready- Hope you get a beter idea at your scan of when to trigger, I'd be a mess if I had to do IUI...lol

Hockey- How's it all going for you?

Welcome newcomers and hi everyone else :) Not much going on for me, I start the nasal spray today so I guess we're slowly moving forward lol

Good luck with the nasal spray :dust:
 
I had my cd11 scan today.
1 follicle 20mm. Lining is good at 7.5.

They wanted me to trigger today and do IUI on cd13. I suggested trigger cd12 and IUI on cd14.
The last time I did this, I also interfered but suggested to have IUI on cd13, then I think I ov'd on cd14 or 15, (I should have listened to them, but felt ov was imminent). So I am a little nervous that my timing will be off. Ok, maybe I'm a lot bit nervous.

I'm trying to keep perspective that it will take a couple of cycles just to get the timing right, so hopefully, I will have a good plan for February. :thumbup:

I also keep trying to be realistic. My RE says it's only a 15% chance of conception and that, "For most women, this won't work." I mentioned this to my friend, (aka fertile mertile. She had 2 sets of twins in 21 months.....unassisted...... each conception from her first cycle of well timed bd). My friend said to me, "And what were the odds that I would have 2 sets of twins in a row from having unprotected sex only 2 times?

Well................I couldn't really come up with a response to that. But, it did make me think that maybe this is possible!! :haha:

Happy fertilization everyone!! :drunk::loopy:
Thats a great size follie! Doesn't the trigger force O :wacko:
 
I had my cd11 scan today.
1 follicle 20mm. Lining is good at 7.5.

They wanted me to trigger today and do IUI on cd13. I suggested trigger cd12 and IUI on cd14.
The last time I did this, I also interfered but suggested to have IUI on cd13, then I think I ov'd on cd14 or 15, (I should have listened to them, but felt ov was imminent). So I am a little nervous that my timing will be off. Ok, maybe I'm a lot bit nervous.

I'm trying to keep perspective that it will take a couple of cycles just to get the timing right, so hopefully, I will have a good plan for February. :thumbup:

I also keep trying to be realistic. My RE says it's only a 15% chance of conception and that, "For most women, this won't work." I mentioned this to my friend, (aka fertile mertile. She had 2 sets of twins in 21 months.....unassisted...... each conception from her first cycle of well timed bd). My friend said to me, "And what were the odds that I would have 2 sets of twins in a row from having unprotected sex only 2 times?

Well................I couldn't really come up with a response to that. But, it did make me think that maybe this is possible!! :haha:

Happy fertilization everyone!! :drunk::loopy:
Thats a great size follie! Doesn't the trigger force O :wacko:

It does. My body seems to respond late to the trigger though.
I think it just ovulates when it wants to regardless of trigger. :haha:
 
I had my cd11 scan today.
1 follicle 20mm. Lining is good at 7.5.

They wanted me to trigger today and do IUI on cd13. I suggested trigger cd12 and IUI on cd14.
The last time I did this, I also interfered but suggested to have IUI on cd13, then I think I ov'd on cd14 or 15, (I should have listened to them, but felt ov was imminent). So I am a little nervous that my timing will be off. Ok, maybe I'm a lot bit nervous.

I'm trying to keep perspective that it will take a couple of cycles just to get the timing right, so hopefully, I will have a good plan for February. :thumbup:

I also keep trying to be realistic. My RE says it's only a 15% chance of conception and that, "For most women, this won't work." I mentioned this to my friend, (aka fertile mertile. She had 2 sets of twins in 21 months.....unassisted...... each conception from her first cycle of well timed bd). My friend said to me, "And what were the odds that I would have 2 sets of twins in a row from having unprotected sex only 2 times?

Well................I couldn't really come up with a response to that. But, it did make me think that maybe this is possible!! :haha:

Happy fertilization everyone!! :drunk::loopy:
Thats a great size follie! Doesn't the trigger force O :wacko:

It does. My body seems to respond late to the trigger though.
I think it just ovulates when it wants to regardless of trigger. :haha:
Phew I was confused for a minute :dohh:
Our bodies don't like bosses :haha:
 
Hockey- How's it all going for you?

I'm on BCP's until we start the cycle in mid February. So right now, I get to stalk all of your progress - which is awesome because I just build on all of your excitement and good news! :happydance:

I'm not familiar with the nasal spray - is this something you do before you start meds?

Ahhh...so your on the long protocol as well:thumbup: the nasal spray is the suppressor so I don't ovulate...I go stop the pill on the 24th and then have a scan on the 31st and if my ovaries are quiet I can start stimming at that point:thumbup:
 
Crystal, wouldn't the BCP suppress your OV anyway? Is the spray just a safety net?
 
Hockey- How's it all going for you?

I'm on BCP's until we start the cycle in mid February. So right now, I get to stalk all of your progress - which is awesome because I just build on all of your excitement and good news! :happydance:

I'm not familiar with the nasal spray - is this something you do before you start meds?

Ahhh...so your on the long protocol as well:thumbup: the nasal spray is the suppressor so I don't ovulate...I go stop the pill on the 24th and then have a scan on the 31st and if my ovaries are quiet I can start stimming at that point:thumbup:

Interesting - I didn't know that about the nasal spray. So when you go in on the 31st - will AF have already arrived? Does that put you a few days into your cycle? Here's hoping for some quiet ovaries so you can start stimming!! :thumbup:
 
Dmom- the BCP let's them take control of my cycle so I'm on their schedule and the spray will stop my ovaries from doing anything. I think because my body fights back so much the FS wanted to take total control...so I think the plan is that with the BCP and the spray he'll give my ovaries a good rest and then when they start to be stimulated they won't be so sluggish. that's the plan but then again there's no guarantee..so fingers crossed!! Can't wait to hear how you do at your scan!!

Hockey- The spray is called Synarel and is used to suppress the ovaries while they're being stimulated :) Do you know what you'll be on for stimulating etc?
 
Hockey - sorry I forgot to tell you, FS said I may have a breakthrough bleed after I stop the pill on the 24th if not I won't need to have an AF because the spray will have stopped all ovarian action so I can start stimulating at any point after my scan on the 31st. It gets confusing with so many different protocols that's for sure:)
 
You are definitely right! So many different protocols - its gets confusing! But everyone's body reacts differently so I guess we have to trust our doctors.

I'm on BCP's until 2/13 and start the shots on 2/18.

My drug protocol to start is:
225 units of Follistim in the a.m.
150 units of Follistim in the p.m.
75 units of Menopur in the p.m.

Looks like I will be right behind you!
 
So I had a saline sonogram this morning to check on a small fibroid that I have. The doctor feels there is a risk that it could cause issues with implantation. This is the same fibroid I've had that he didn't seem to think was an issue with IUI's but for IVF maybe. Ideally, you would want to remove it - which has a recovery time of 3-4 months (meaning no TTC). :nope:

So now the question is - do I go ahead with IVF anyway and hope it doesn't cause any issues or do IVF, freeze the eggs, have the surgery and hope that I have eggs that make it through thaw and have them transferred after recovery? :shrug:

I'm just so disappointed. I feel like I've been waiting to get to IVF and now that I'm finally there - its another 4 month wait. This is so emotionally draining!! :cry:

I'm leaning towards going through the IVF process and making a game day decision based on egg counts.
 
Maybe the doc could pick a different location for implantation?
 
So I had a saline sonogram this morning to check on a small fibroid that I have. The doctor feels there is a risk that it could cause issues with implantation. This is the same fibroid I've had that he didn't seem to think was an issue with IUI's but for IVF maybe. Ideally, you would want to remove it - which has a recovery time of 3-4 months (meaning no TTC). :nope:

So now the question is - do I go ahead with IVF anyway and hope it doesn't cause any issues or do IVF, freeze the eggs, have the surgery and hope that I have eggs that make it through thaw and have them transferred after recovery? :shrug:

I'm just so disappointed. I feel like I've been waiting to get to IVF and now that I'm finally there - its another 4 month wait. This is so emotionally draining!! :cry:

I'm leaning towards going through the IVF process and making a game day decision based on egg counts.

oh no :growlmad: why such a long wait? I was allowed to TTC right after my polyp removal, they just said no intercourse for a week. why so long? Ive never heard of 3-4 month recovery and in fact my FS told me that having an 'injury' to the uterus helps with blood flow (she might do a biopsy on me if I have a couple of failed FETs).

where is the fibroid and how big? its a difficult one, the best thing would be to have it removed so you have the best chances....if theres only a 30% chance of the IVF working already you want to have the perfect environment. You could do the IVF now and see how you do...if you ended up with lots of choice like me you could transfer one and freeze the rest. if that doesnt work have the surgery and then do FETs after. If you dont have much choice you could freeze them all and do FETS later. Ask them they defrost rate....my clinic is 85-90% so I shouldnt lose many.

Im so sorry, I know how it feels. I had to wait 3 months to have my polyp removed and that felt like a lifetime. And I had a wait a month after my failed IVF and that was hard. Waiting is hard :hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
Maybe the doc could pick a different location for implantation?

the doc can put the embryo in the uterus but they cant really know where its going to choose to implant. it probably floats around for a while...if it immediately attached that would be perfect.
 
I'm not sure why the long recovery - but I've heard that from others on this forum as well. As soon as he said something about surgery - I knew it was bad news.

But its a small fibroid that I've had for months now. It hasn't changed in size or location. Before the doctor didn't seem to think it was an issue but now that we are doing IVF, he says there is a risk. He's not making any recommendations, just wants me to know the situation and make my own decision.

He said I could go through IVF, get pregnant and if I do miscarry - is it because I have 39 year old eggs or because of the fibroid? Who knows!

I think we will probably go through IVF and see what kind of egg count we get - if we get lucky and have lots of eggs like Sarah - then, I'll definitely transfer 1 or 2 and freeze the rest. But if not, I'll have to decide at the time what to do. I would feel better having the surgery if I knew I had a stash of eggs waiting for me. :flower:

Part of me wants to go through IVF regardless but there is another side that says - maybe this is why you haven't gotten pregnant before? :wacko:
 

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