Anyone starting to set up the process of EGG SHARING? If so come join me 8 BFP's

[scerena]

plex Hun
I'd be lucky to get another round of injections, was only allowed three rounds nope they are just going to leave me waiting...

Hopefully they will contact you sooner Hun, the most annoying part is waiting around right- the joys of TTC!

 

[bettybee1]

hi ladies i have my AMH scan & basline bloods on the 29th jan tuesday

do they tell you the result of AMH straight away omg am so nervous sorry for bombing on here hope yas dont mind xx

 

[scerena]

bettybee1 Hun welcome to the thread I have seen your name around the boards

The AMH doesn't come back straight away, I was told a few weeks but mine were back a few days later
It's so nerve wracking waiting for the AMH to see if you're eligible but I am sure yours will be fine how old are you???

 

[bettybee1]

Hey hun

Am 20 21 in April !!

Oh hopefully it doesn't too long because Iam so impatient !! They have booked me in with the docter today for the 20th feb so I should get my results then I suppose !!

 

[Plex]

heya bettybee - good luck for ur tests only a few days to wait tillu have them! xx

 

[scerena]

bettybee1 I'm sure with your age your have an amazing AMH I'm 26 and had a high AMH of 35.05 (anything over 15 is good)

That's great! Not long at all then you will get your results and they might even of matched you by then too

plex how are you Hun????

 

[bettybee1]

Thanks girls yeah I hope so abit nervous I don't know why maybe the unknown when I had my daughter I caught on 1st cycle of clomid using progestrone aswell but this time I've just had chemical after chemical and now this cycle I haven't even ovulated at all just come
On 14days early strange !!!!!! Think that's what gave me the urge too ring up get this ball rolling !! I had my initial app in September and was already for going then for it but I had my doubhts but enough is enough hopefully off everything goes smoothly we will be paying extra too take embie too blastocyst stage so fingescrossed


Am abit worried about matching though Iam olive skinned with blonde hair(natural) dark brown now and dark dark brown eyes am slim and 5ft 11 so but my blood group is reus negative 0 which is one off the rare ones so hope try can match me :/ x

 

[scerena]

Awww you have a daughter how old is she?

It's amazing how fertility just changes at any time I hope that your luck changes soon
I couldn't ovulate on Clomid which sucks were you on the same dose and didn't ovulate?

I've had chemicals too and they suck

I was the same- I didn't know what to do, so had a break and then finished setting it all up- now I wish I didn't wait for that couple of months as now they're finding it hard to match me if I knew that I wouldn't of had the break...

How much are you paying for egg sharing where you are???(if you don't mind asking?)

Fx'd they will have a match for you Hun and not keep you waiting like me this waiting sucks big time!

 

[bettybee1]

Yeah she's only 16 month lol but we started trying when she was 3 month old and I caught on straight away naturally but I had a mc then again in may I caught on naturally but had a chemical then in July I caught on had chemical was using soy then oct - Chem naturally I only used clomid once in june 50mg !!! I ovulated

One of the problems is that my husband is in the army and he does exercises 2x a month so basically is away 2 weeks out off the month so we miss ovulation a lot like we only manage too have sex 2-3 days before if that sometimes

We was going too go for the iui but in total it's 1500

Am doing it at care Sheffield and there prices for screening & drugs& treatment comes too £1489 which is a lot really compared too london etc but I just simply wouldn't be able tol travel miles away and the cost of petrol would off not made that worth it !


Oh I wish I hadn't off Waited since september either duh !!!! Lol

Iam just worried about over stimulating and stuff :: freaks me out when ingot pregnant with dd I only took 50mg and overstimmed it was minging lol !!!


Have you tried iuis or Anythng ?? How much will your ivf cost xxx

 

[scerena]

bettybee1 sounds as if u you have had a rough time Hun
How lovely to have a 16month old little girl I bet you cannot wait to have a sibling for her

Ahhh that's a shame you miss o sometimes

I don't even ovulate on my own

Wow that is a lot!- mines £350- including tests/scans/blasto transfer/ all meds etc... It just doesn't include ICSI but we aren't doing ICSI we are going to do ICSI next time IF no success this time...

I'm sure they will match you in no time Hun I would of been matched if my ethnicity was white

They will keep a close eye on you Hun, I done menopur form3 cycles and you will have so many scans they will keep you as safe as possible- we have to produce quite a lot of eggs with this egg sharing so I imagine it can be quite uncomfortable, OHSS is a scary thought though

We didn't do IUI's- but we done clomid, then had a lap/hysteroscopy and ovarian drilling and then we done HMG injections (cycled with menopur)...
Now we have been told IVF is our only option if we want a baby

Have you tried anything apart from clomid???

 

[bettybee1]

Oh don't you hunnie its so rubbish all this ttc malarkey

I haven't tried anything but one cycle of clomid this year as I only got referred too the nhs fertilty department in December and I know for a fact coz I've being there before that it will take months and months too do ought then they will tell me too use fertilty meds which they will want too use 6months and I can't b sure that my husband will b around when I o so it's just not worth bothering !!!! Am still going to the nhs app which is on the 4th feb as there testing why I've had chemicals but cba with waiting !! Am too impatient !!! Plus I've got money stashed away !! Haha so I can do a couple off cycles off ivf so might aswell go for it !!! Instead off stressing with temps and am I Gunna catch 0 !! Luke's boss has too let him goto appointments so i guess unless we wanna b trying for ages then this is the best option !!

I would off thought they would want mixed race people more !! Suppose it depends where you live tho I bet in shefield theyre crying out for mixed donors etc. as its so multicultural hope it's jt too long for you

But for that price it can't b bad !!! Lol

We will decide if we want the isci when we get Luke's sperm results never had one done before so that will b interesting !! Or scary lol xxx

 

[4magpies]

So have you not had any fertility testing yet then Betty?

x

 

[scerena]

bettybee1 that's great that you can do stuff in the meantime to get your bfp with your oh not always being around, and a good idea getting the testing done on the NHS in the meantime

Much better option than temping and opk'ing with your ohs boss having to let him have the time off this definitely seems like the best option

They just said they don't have a mixed race recipient waiting- which sucks! So ,aye London- but would mean travelling all the time and I don't think my oh would be able to take me all the time... I don't know- going to ring around a few clinics on Monday I think...

Sperm results... I hope your ohs will be okay- my theory on it is- years ago they only had IVF no ICSI and I'm sure if his sample is half decent then it will work as the sperm are washed and only the best ones picked anyway... I dunno really, if icsi is recommended then it is
When's he doing the test??? At your appointment???

plex, 4magpies, kazza hope you're all okay???

 

[4magpies]

Scerena how is your OH's sperm? We are just doing IVF, no ICSI as all the problems are with me.

I am good just a quiet friday night as we have a busy weekend, lots of errands to run tomorrow and seeing our wedding planner on sunday at our venue!

Had M&S pizza for tea with M&S chips then some cheese and crackers. It's my diet cheat meal and it was amazing, and still not too many calories really.

Hope you're good.

xxx

 

[4magpies]

And I am hoping I am pretty easy to match as I am very much a plain jane!

xx

 

[scerena]

4magpies if you're a plain Jane you will get a match straight away it's only cos of my mix

We are having a quiet Friday night too it's nice sometimes though

Your meals sound great for weight loss meals at least you still get some treats in there

Oh use to have a very low sperm count, but now it's normal and has been for a while so it should just be Ivf we need
So it's the same for me- I have the problem...
I guess it's better than us both having a problem though

 

[bettybee1]

So have you not had any fertility testing yet then Betty?

x

Not properly no before I had dd I had the hsg which was all clear I also had bloods etc it showed low progestrone and as soon as I started charting in my natural cycle after dd I ovulate late and had a short lp which tbh stops me from having a healthy pregnancy it's just common sense i have had normal ultra sounds since and everything has being okay

But the hard thing is my husband is never around when we ovulte so if his sperma just okay and an abit dodgy them that togethr is crap plus I've had 4 early mcs in one year and 3 have them have ended just after af was due so the docter recommend blastocyst becoz it should go past whatever is going wrong if you get me and tbh I am such a worrier and stressy person that waiting around for the nhs to test us which will take months for them too stick me on clomid just sucks lol x

 

[bettybee1]

bettybee1 that's great that you can do stuff in the meantime to get your bfp with your oh not always being around, and a good idea getting the testing done on the NHS in the meantime

Much better option than temping and opk'ing with your ohs boss having to let him have the time off this definitely seems like the best option

They just said they don't have a mixed race recipient waiting- which sucks! So ,aye London- but would mean travelling all the time and I don't think my oh would be able to take me all the time... I don't know- going to ring around a few clinics on Monday I think...

Sperm results... I hope your ohs will be okay- my theory on it is- years ago they only had IVF no ICSI and I'm sure if his sample is half decent then it will work as the sperm are washed and only the best ones picked anyway... I dunno really, if icsi is recommended then it is
When's he doing the test??? At your appointment???

plex, 4magpies, kazza hope you're all okay???

Yeah hun the sperm test has being arranged for te 20th feb with the docters app don't think them results will take too long tho but my nhs hospital may do them at our app the 4th of feb so we will see doubhts it tho there rubbish there my friend had her 1st over a year ago and she has only jut being given clomid !!! Ridiculous !!!!

Don't get me wrong I love the nhs and I will use there services for testing but I know already as I have a child they can't offer me anything but meds !!!


Urghhh I hope they match u quick or you can find somewhere that does !! They should of told u befor u got started that they don't have any mixed race recepitents !!

 

[scerena]

I know right! They told me when I got started the testing I should be matched almost straight away wish I went elsewhere!! I was so excited to get started for my last appointment I would have been starting on my next af!

Yh results for SA are quick they will have them within a few days to a week so you won't be waiting long

The nhs are good but when it comes to fertility I think they are absolutely rubbish and shouldn't be able to make their own rules in different postcodes it should be the same for everyone... But that's life I guess

 

[bettybee1]

Am currently training too be a nurse will be qualified in April !! & I work as a health care assistant on an nhs ward & it's the same across the field if people fall into a certain age range they just don't do stuff it's not fair at all

& I think the postcode thing is shocking and they don't Do ivf even if the man already has. A child whitch is totally unfair ! Too