Anyone struggling to get baby number 2??

[Button#]

Hi Zephram, good luck!

I'm confused! I thought I had it all figured out, get a positive OPK and O 2 days later followed by spotting on 1dpo. This cycle I had spotting on CD11 and 12 then a positive OPK on CD16 and a teeny bit of spotting same day. Now I've had no more spotting but I'm pretty sure I've O'd as my CM has changed.

Oh well maybe these are all good things. It's actually quite relaxing not knowing what's going on.

 

[slg76]

:wave: hi zephram. Welcome.

I hope you find yourself pregnant very soon! Have you considered using OPK to see if you are ovulating? Also, since it sounds like you have no fertility issues I bet you would be just fine BDing every other day. The sperm live about three days inside you. It would be less pressure and more fun for DH . Good luck!

 

[tootyfruity]

Zephram welcome, I conceived my ds 2nd cycle then last year we conceived 2nd cycle but that ended in mc. We are now month 8 ttc.

Button Im sure you did ovulate keep us updated.

Afm I am 12dpo and I have been getting very faint bfp...I am going out of my mind, one minute I'm getting a bit excited and the next I'm worried because they haven't got much darker. I hate this wait and not knowing.

 

[Mrs W 11]

Omg tooty congrats!! That's wonderful news, keeping fingers crossed for you that this is sticky!!

Button it sounds like you are having ov spotting which can signal a good strong ovulation. Xx

 

[babyjan]

Hope everyone is doing well!

Congrats tooty! Hope those lines get darker for you

 

[tootyfruity]

Thank you but I don't feel I should be congratulated yet as they are so faint and not much progression, I don't want to put a downer on it but I'm just so scared, ill test again tomorrow (obviously lol ) x

 

[Mrs W 11]

Oh bless you. How many days have you been testing with no progression? Hcg should double every 48 hours at first. Maybe it's just early, how many dpo are you? X

 

[tootyfruity]

Since Tuesday (10dpo) which was a questionable line, then today (12dpo) and yesterday (11dpo) I have tested multiple times and the best line I got was yesterday, some are the same and some are fainter.

 

[Mrs W 11]

Possibly because you are testing at different times of day Hun some more and some less diluted urine. I'm sure all will be fine. I know it's hard not to worry. Xxx

 

[Button#]

Fingers crossed for you tooty!!! We will need to see piccys of tests!

I just got a bit of spotting so happy now that I did O. Now to have as stress free a TWW as possible.

 

[tootyfruity]

Yes button I hope you have a stress free tww trying to keep busy.

I will try to upload pics

 

[tootyfruity]

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[tootyfruity]

Top 2 are yesterday (11dpo) bottom are today (12dpo)

 

[tootyfruity]

Mrs w I know that right be the reason and I keep trying to think about that and that it's early and only a 24 hour time span, but other people's look Better than that lol

 

[slg76]

exciting news tooty!!!!!!

I think your lines look just fine. Remember that: 1. many people don't even get a bfp yet 2. hcg only doubles every 48 hours or so 3. when you only have very little hcg to start it's harder to see progression.

You can remind me of all those things when I start to get my next bfp because it's impossible to think that rationally when it's you

Let me know when can give you proper congratulations

 

[tootyfruity]

Oh Thank you slg, I was nearly going to cry cause noone had replied lol. We will see what happens in the next few days though, I have to be patient.

Don't you worry I will be there to reassure you when you get your bfp... hope it's really soon x x x

 

[Button#]

Sorry Tooty, I'm back to look now. Those lines look great! I was expecting them to be fainter from what you described. I'm very excited for you.

 

[tootyfruity]

Thanks button.. well I tested this morning and I hardly got a line, it's even fainter than the ones above, i used an ic with smu. I'm thinking its probably a chemical :'(

 

[slg76]

Oh no tooty. I hope it's not chemical but maybe just a difference in the tests.

 

[tootyfruity]

I just went to the bathroom and af has arrived : (
Do you know what though I'm so glad this hasn't gone on for weeks like it might of and now I won't be looking at the tests all weekend and googling pictures of other people's tests.
Never mind onto a new cycle now. Good luck to everyone else too x