Anyone trying for #2 around cd 4?

[ProudMomma2Be]

Hello, I have 17 month old son and we decided to try for another one .can I join you? We would like a girl but health of the baby is most important .
The first time I was pregnant I had a miscarriage , than after 6 months we conceived our son but had high risc pregnancy due to single umbilical artery . And we started to try for another one last month . I took pregnancy test 6 days before my expected period because I just felt pregnant and it was possitive but after 5 days I started some spotting and than bleeding so I did another test to be sure if the one before was not false and it was positive again . I found out it was chemical pregnancy which I had no idea existed . It's basically pregnancy that ends so soon you would not even know you have been pregnant because you start to bleed around your expected period . And it doesn't count as a miscarriage because the pregnancy barely started . But now and scared anyway that I am going to have problems to conceive ...

 

[CastawayBride]

Ah castaway I'm so pleased it went well, he sounds like a lovely doctor.

Well I've spent this evening feeling very sorry for myself but hopefully will be in a better place tomorrow! Toying with buying a cbfm for next month.... (I so wish I had got it for this month now - arghhggg!)

I loved mine, both times first month preggers! It takes the stress out of it in my opinion, b/c you don't have to temp and you know you have done everything you can in timing to catch that egg! Best of luck on your next cycle...if you are getting it you have to start it up to CD5!!!

 

[CastawayBride]

Hello, I have 17 month old son and we decided to try for another one .can I join you? We would like a girl but health of the baby is most important .
The first time I was pregnant I had a miscarriage , than after 6 months we conceived our son but had high risc pregnancy due to single umbilical artery . And we started to try for another one last month . I took pregnancy test 6 days before my expected period because I just felt pregnant and it was possitive but after 5 days I started some spotting and than bleeding so I did another test to be sure if the one before was not false and it was positive again . I found out it was chemical pregnancy which I had no idea existed . It's basically pregnancy that ends so soon you would not even know you have been pregnant because you start to bleed around your expected period . And it doesn't count as a miscarriage because the pregnancy barely started . But now and scared anyway that I am going to have problems to conceive ...

Our son also had the single umbilical cord and we unfortunately lost our son at 31 weeks. We are now pregnant with our second child and very nervous! I hope you have a complication free pregnancy!!

 

[ProudMomma2Be]

Hello, I have 17 month old son and we decided to try for another one .can I join you? We would like a girl but health of the baby is most important .
The first time I was pregnant I had a miscarriage , than after 6 months we conceived our son but had high risc pregnancy due to single umbilical artery . And we started to try for another one last month . I took pregnancy test 6 days before my expected period because I just felt pregnant and it was possitive but after 5 days I started some spotting and than bleeding so I did another test to be sure if the one before was not false and it was positive again . I found out it was chemical pregnancy which I had no idea existed . It's basically pregnancy that ends so soon you would not even know you have been pregnant because you start to bleed around your expected period . And it doesn't count as a miscarriage because the pregnancy barely started . But now and scared anyway that I am going to have problems to conceive ...

Our son also had the single umbilical cord and we unfortunately lost our son at 31 weeks. We are now pregnant with our second child and very nervous! I hope you have a complication free pregnancy!!

I am so sorry to hear that . Just try not to be nervous . Keep positive thoughts . I know it is hard but sometimes you just need to do something to keep your hopes up .

 

[CastawayBride]

Hello, I have 17 month old son and we decided to try for another one .can I join you? We would like a girl but health of the baby is most important .
The first time I was pregnant I had a miscarriage , than after 6 months we conceived our son but had high risc pregnancy due to single umbilical artery . And we started to try for another one last month . I took pregnancy test 6 days before my expected period because I just felt pregnant and it was possitive but after 5 days I started some spotting and than bleeding so I did another test to be sure if the one before was not false and it was positive again . I found out it was chemical pregnancy which I had no idea existed . It's basically pregnancy that ends so soon you would not even know you have been pregnant because you start to bleed around your expected period . And it doesn't count as a miscarriage because the pregnancy barely started . But now and scared anyway that I am going to have problems to conceive ...

Our son also had the single umbilical cord and we unfortunately lost our son at 31 weeks. We are now pregnant with our second child and very nervous! I hope you have a complication free pregnancy!!

I am so sorry to hear that . Just try not to be nervous . Keep positive thoughts . I know it is hard but sometimes you just need to do something to keep your hopes up .

Thank you! We met with a new doctor today and I have to say, Yes, I am optimistic!!!

 

[ProudMomma2Be]

Hello, I have 17 month old son and we decided to try for another one .can I join you? We would like a girl but health of the baby is most important .
The first time I was pregnant I had a miscarriage , than after 6 months we conceived our son but had high risc pregnancy due to single umbilical artery . And we started to try for another one last month . I took pregnancy test 6 days before my expected period because I just felt pregnant and it was possitive but after 5 days I started some spotting and than bleeding so I did another test to be sure if the one before was not false and it was positive again . I found out it was chemical pregnancy which I had no idea existed . It's basically pregnancy that ends so soon you would not even know you have been pregnant because you start to bleed around your expected period . And it doesn't count as a miscarriage because the pregnancy barely started . But now and scared anyway that I am going to have problems to conceive ...

Our son also had the single umbilical cord and we unfortunately lost our son at 31 weeks. We are now pregnant with our second child and very nervous! I hope you have a complication free pregnancy!!

I am so sorry to hear that . Just try not to be nervous . Keep positive thoughts . I know it is hard but sometimes you just need to do something to keep your hopes up .

Thank you! We met with a new doctor today and I have to say, Yes, I am optimistic!!!

That's great . Keep the positive going good luck

 

[ProudMomma2Be]

Hello, I have 17 month old son and we decided to try for another one .can I join you? We would like a girl but health of the baby is most important .
The first time I was pregnant I had a miscarriage , than after 6 months we conceived our son but had high risc pregnancy due to single umbilical artery . And we started to try for another one last month . I took pregnancy test 6 days before my expected period because I just felt pregnant and it was possitive but after 5 days I started some spotting and than bleeding so I did another test to be sure if the one before was not false and it was positive again . I found out it was chemical pregnancy which I had no idea existed . It's basically pregnancy that ends so soon you would not even know you have been pregnant because you start to bleed around your expected period . And it doesn't count as a miscarriage because the pregnancy barely started . But now and scared anyway that I am going to have problems to conceive ...

Our son also had the single umbilical cord and we unfortunately lost our son at 31 weeks. We are now pregnant with our second child and very nervous! I hope you have a complication free pregnancy!!

May I ask you something ? Was the single umbilical artery cause of your son ? You don't have to answer if you don't feel comfortable . I was just wondering because they have never warned me it could happened . They talked about him possibly being smaller or have some mild hearth or bowel defect ..

 

[ellitigg]

Hey everyone, is it ok if I join you? I'm TTC #2, DS is now 19 mths. I'm in the TWW, AF due on Thursday...eek. I haven't read the full thread yet, is anyone testing this week?

 

[CastawayBride]

Hello, I have 17 month old son and we decided to try for another one .can I join you? We would like a girl but health of the baby is most important .
The first time I was pregnant I had a miscarriage , than after 6 months we conceived our son but had high risc pregnancy due to single umbilical artery . And we started to try for another one last month . I took pregnancy test 6 days before my expected period because I just felt pregnant and it was possitive but after 5 days I started some spotting and than bleeding so I did another test to be sure if the one before was not false and it was positive again . I found out it was chemical pregnancy which I had no idea existed . It's basically pregnancy that ends so soon you would not even know you have been pregnant because you start to bleed around your expected period . And it doesn't count as a miscarriage because the pregnancy barely started . But now and scared anyway that I am going to have problems to conceive ...

Our son also had the single umbilical cord and we unfortunately lost our son at 31 weeks. We are now pregnant with our second child and very nervous! I hope you have a complication free pregnancy!!

May I ask you something ? Was the single umbilical artery cause of your son ? You don't have to answer if you don't feel comfortable . I was just wondering because they have never warned me it could happened . They talked about him possibly being smaller or have some mild hearth or bowel defect ..

We got the same warning and then all of a sudden one day I felt he was not that active...I begged for a scan and we found my son in heart failure that was from what we gathered, due to the cord cutting off his circulation

 

[ProudMomma2Be]

Hello, I have 17 month old son and we decided to try for another one .can I join you? We would like a girl but health of the baby is most important .
The first time I was pregnant I had a miscarriage , than after 6 months we conceived our son but had high risc pregnancy due to single umbilical artery . And we started to try for another one last month . I took pregnancy test 6 days before my expected period because I just felt pregnant and it was possitive but after 5 days I started some spotting and than bleeding so I did another test to be sure if the one before was not false and it was positive again . I found out it was chemical pregnancy which I had no idea existed . It's basically pregnancy that ends so soon you would not even know you have been pregnant because you start to bleed around your expected period . And it doesn't count as a miscarriage because the pregnancy barely started . But now and scared anyway that I am going to have problems to conceive ...

Our son also had the single umbilical cord and we unfortunately lost our son at 31 weeks. We are now pregnant with our second child and very nervous! I hope you have a complication free pregnancy!!

May I ask you something ? Was the single umbilical artery cause of your son ? You don't have to answer if you don't feel comfortable . I was just wondering because they have never warned me it could happened . They talked about him possibly being smaller or have some mild hearth or bowel defect ..

We got the same warning and then all of a sudden one day I felt he was not that active...I begged for a scan and we found my son in heart failure that was from what we gathered, due to the cord cutting off his circulation

Wow ,that's horrible again , I am so sorry you had to get threw that . I cannot imagine ...
Yeah, sometimes you have to literally beg for some further check up . I kept telling my doctor that my fluid is leaking and that my baby is not moving as much as before and he told me he doesn't see any tearing and it is normal for the baby to move less . And he told me I am probably peeing myself... and after like 3 weeks I had my monthly ultrasound and they told me I have very low amniotic fluid and they need to induce me right away . I don't wanna imagine what would have happen if my son would not have SUA and regular u/s.

 

[CastawayBride]

Hello, I have 17 month old son and we decided to try for another one .can I join you? We would like a girl but health of the baby is most important .
The first time I was pregnant I had a miscarriage , than after 6 months we conceived our son but had high risc pregnancy due to single umbilical artery . And we started to try for another one last month . I took pregnancy test 6 days before my expected period because I just felt pregnant and it was possitive but after 5 days I started some spotting and than bleeding so I did another test to be sure if the one before was not false and it was positive again . I found out it was chemical pregnancy which I had no idea existed . It's basically pregnancy that ends so soon you would not even know you have been pregnant because you start to bleed around your expected period . And it doesn't count as a miscarriage because the pregnancy barely started . But now and scared anyway that I am going to have problems to conceive ...

Our son also had the single umbilical cord and we unfortunately lost our son at 31 weeks. We are now pregnant with our second child and very nervous! I hope you have a complication free pregnancy!!

May I ask you something ? Was the single umbilical artery cause of your son ? You don't have to answer if you don't feel comfortable . I was just wondering because they have never warned me it could happened . They talked about him possibly being smaller or have some mild hearth or bowel defect ..

We got the same warning and then all of a sudden one day I felt he was not that active...I begged for a scan and we found my son in heart failure that was from what we gathered, due to the cord cutting off his circulation

Wow ,that's horrible again , I am so sorry you had to get threw that . I cannot imagine ...
Yeah, sometimes you have to literally beg for some further check up . I kept telling my doctor that my fluid is leaking and that my baby is not moving as much as before and he told me he doesn't see any tearing and it is normal for the baby to move less . And he told me I am probably peeing myself... and after like 3 weeks I had my monthly ultrasound and they told me I have very low amniotic fluid and they need to induce me right away . I don't wanna imagine what would have happen if my son would not have SUA and regular u/s.

We were having regular US and they still didn't properly care for me and him. Needless to say we have a lawyer and hoping that they will learn from their mistakes...

 

[Dogtanian]

Hi to all the new ladies,you are all very welcome to join
Babydust-so sorry to hear your bad news,stay positive,im sure you will be better in no time.Sending
Castaway- so glad to hear your first appointment went well,it must be starting to feel real now.Looking forward to your progress.
Fleur-hang in there,just remember next month could be your month,as annoying as it is to see AF it means you have a chance at seeing a bfp the following month
Im not doing very well at all.Took DD for her first swimming lesson today and she played up and didnt enjoy it at all then elbowed me in the throat while she was thrashing about and i just burst into tears.I feel so emotional,im all over the place.Im so confused with whats going on with my body (cd38 still no AF)I feel so down i dont even want to have sex,i hope these feelings pass soon

 

[CastawayBride]

Hi to all the new ladies,you are all very welcome to join
Babydust-so sorry to hear your bad news,stay positive,im sure you will be better in no time.Sending
Castaway- so glad to hear your first appointment went well,it must be starting to feel real now.Looking forward to your progress.
Fleur-hang in there,just remember next month could be your month,as annoying as it is to see AF it means you have a chance at seeing a bfp the following month
Im not doing very well at all.Took DD for her first swimming lesson today and she played up and didnt enjoy it at all then elbowed me in the throat while she was thrashing about and i just burst into tears.I feel so emotional,im all over the place.Im so confused with whats going on with my body (cd38 still no AF)I feel so down i dont even want to have sex,i hope these feelings pass soon

Take care Dogtanian....I hope you make progress soon!!

 

[ProudMomma2Be]

Hello, I have 17 month old son and we decided to try for another one .can I join you? We would like a girl but health of the baby is most important .
The first time I was pregnant I had a miscarriage , than after 6 months we conceived our son but had high risc pregnancy due to single umbilical artery . And we started to try for another one last month . I took pregnancy test 6 days before my expected period because I just felt pregnant and it was possitive but after 5 days I started some spotting and than bleeding so I did another test to be sure if the one before was not false and it was positive again . I found out it was chemical pregnancy which I had no idea existed . It's basically pregnancy that ends so soon you would not even know you have been pregnant because you start to bleed around your expected period . And it doesn't count as a miscarriage because the pregnancy barely started . But now and scared anyway that I am going to have problems to conceive ...

Our son also had the single umbilical cord and we unfortunately lost our son at 31 weeks. We are now pregnant with our second child and very nervous! I hope you have a complication free pregnancy!!

May I ask you something ? Was the single umbilical artery cause of your son ? You don't have to answer if you don't feel comfortable . I was just wondering because they have never warned me it could happened . They talked about him possibly being smaller or have some mild hearth or bowel defect ..

We got the same warning and then all of a sudden one day I felt he was not that active...I begged for a scan and we found my son in heart failure that was from what we gathered, due to the cord cutting off his circulation

Wow ,that's horrible again , I am so sorry you had to get threw that . I cannot imagine ...
Yeah, sometimes you have to literally beg for some further check up . I kept telling my doctor that my fluid is leaking and that my baby is not moving as much as before and he told me he doesn't see any tearing and it is normal for the baby to move less . And he told me I am probably peeing myself... and after like 3 weeks I had my monthly ultrasound and they told me I have very low amniotic fluid and they need to induce me right away . I don't wanna imagine what would have happen if my son would not have SUA and regular u/s.

We were having regular US and they still didn't properly care for me and him. Needless to say we have a lawyer and hoping that they will learn from their mistakes...

That's for sure . It's not gonna change what have happen to you but you may help other women to get the care they are suppose to

 

[Fleur29]

Dogtanian - sorry af is still AWOL could be a late bfp? Do you keep testing?Sorry that you are feeling down about it. Hugs to you xxx

Castaway - you definitely deserve a break, I'm sure everything will go perfectly with this pregnancy. Keeping everything crossed! Keep us updated

Nice to see new folks! Lets move onto October together! I have (drumroll) purchased a cbfm! I was really umming and ahhing but bit the bullet and its due to arrive tomorrow!! Hopefully that will satisfy my urges to poas towards next cycle end if nothing else?!!

I let myself have a good cry last night (sad I know but I did just think it was my month and got my hopes up when af late!) but today feeling happy again. I have a few friends who have had really tough times recently with various things happening and it does make me realise how lucky I am and that things could always be worse.

Anyway lots of luck ladies - come on let's start seeing some October bfp's soon!

Xx

 

[CastawayBride]

Dogtanian - sorry af is still AWOL could be a late bfp? Do you keep testing?Sorry that you are feeling down about it. Hugs to you xxx

Castaway - you definitely deserve a break, I'm sure everything will go perfectly with this pregnancy. Keeping everything crossed! Keep us updated

Nice to see new folks! Lets move onto October together! I have (drumroll) purchased a cbfm! I was really umming and ahhing but bit the bullet and its due to arrive tomorrow!! Hopefully that will satisfy my urges to poas towards next cycle end if nothing else?!!

I let myself have a good cry last night (sad I know but I did just think it was my month and got my hopes up when af late!) but today feeling happy again. I have a few friends who have had really tough times recently with various things happening and it does make me realise how lucky I am and that things could always be worse.

Anyway lots of luck ladies - come on let's start seeing some October bfp's soon!

Xx

Fleur I am so glad you decided to give the CBFM a chance! Best of luck with it....I am hoping this month coming up will be YOUR month!

 

[Fleur29]

Aw thanks hon - me too! I am looking forward to getting it tomorrow and trying not to think of the cost! You definitely convinced me!! I'll let you know how I get on!!! X

 

[ProudMomma2Be]

May I ask you guys what is CBFM and BFP and AF and DD.

 

[Fleur29]

Cbfm - clear blue fertility monitor
Bfp - big fat positive (pregnancy test!!)
Af - aunt flow (period!)
Dd - dear daughter

Lots and lots of abbreviations on here! Sorry!! There was a thread the other day that had all the abbreviations explained xx

 

[ProudMomma2Be]

Also Guys, how soon can you get pregnancy symptoms ? I know I had first symptoms before my missed period with all 3 of mine pregnancies . But now I am just 2 days after ovulation ( or at least what an online calculation says ) and I feel different . I mean I feel exactly how I felt with each of my pregnancies ... Upset stomach unless I eat something , lower back ache , pressure / mild pain in my lower abdomen , tired , small headaches and changes in taste and smell . I feel like I am crazy because I know it is to soon . Unless I ovulated sooner than I thought ...