Anyone trying for #2 around cd 4?

[babydust1]

I've got a stupid kidney infection :'(

 

[CastawayBride]

well i feel like AF is due to start any minute. Currently on cd 26 and the last two cycles have been 27 days so wouldnt be out of the ordinary if she did arrive in next 24 hours or so makes me feel super glum esp as we are travelling all day tomorrow and it will just be such a faff. I guess at least if she does arrive I can have lots of drinks at the wedding!!

Babydust1 - sorry that things are random, but hopefully cramps could be the start of your bfp? you never know!

Dogtanian - definitely still possible for you then! Will keep fingers crossed. Keep us up to date.

I just hope that that blinking stork is giving all the BFP's to ladies who really deserve them (i.e. people like Castaway) instead of teenage chavs who dont even want to be pregnant (apologies to any teenage chavs reading this!) - hufff!!!!

Im with you on that one,ive always hated hearing about people that get pregnant on a one night stand! drives me crazy.
Best of luck to everyone
Babydust,im overweight too and could do with loosing a stone to get me back to my pre pregnancy weight,but when i feel like this all i wanna do is eat cake!

Ha ha ha....same here. The thought of losing weight is very daunting at this point!

I've got a stupid kidney infection :'(

A kidney infection booo! Are you prone to them? Feel better!!!

 

[Dogtanian]

Oh no.hope you feel better soon babydust.
How are you getting on castaway? any pg symptoms yet?
AF is still not here,trying to fight the urge to get down about it.Being on here helps,ive been reading lots of posts about peoples cycles being all over the place after BC,so im know im not the only one

 

[CastawayBride]

Oh no.hope you feel better soon babydust.
How are you getting on castaway? any pg symptoms yet?
AF is still not here,trying to fight the urge to get down about it.Being on here helps,ive been reading lots of posts about peoples cycles being all over the place after BC,so im know im not the only one

I am doing good, not really feeling to bad. Get nauseous if I don't eat and hot as an oven on and off! lol I am looking forward to going to the doctor and confirming the pregnancy though

I hope you get your AF soon!

 

[Dogtanian]

It will be a very happy time for you when you have the pregnancy confirmed.How long is it untill your appointment?
Im still out in the TTC wilderness,no sign of AF and today i did OPK and its almost positive,so i suppose i will get just in case

 

[CastawayBride]

It will be a very happy time for you when you have the pregnancy confirmed.How long is it untill your appointment?
Im still out in the TTC wilderness,no sign of AF and today i did OPK and its almost positive,so i suppose i will get just in case

I go on Tuesday!!

 

[Fleur29]

HI ladies

Well I thought I would update you! I was feeling very hopeful this month as AF, due on saturday, still hadnt put in an appearance this morning - I have to say, I didnt feel pregnant but if AF stays away, then she stays away, right?! But then I just went to the loo and the bl**dy witch has arrived. 3 days late! I cant believe it as was really starting to get my hopes up - I'm never late

So definitely onto month 4 for me...

I thought I would feel ok about it but I dont. I want to cry and I cant because I'm in an open plan office and everyone will see.

How is everyone else feeling? So, so fed up of this TTC malarkey. And I know 4 months isnt that long but it feels like absolutely forever...



xx

 

[Fleur29]

ps Castaway, hope your appt goes well today!

 

[LittleMum]

HI ladies

Well I thought I would update you! I was feeling very hopeful this month as AF, due on saturday, still hadnt put in an appearance this morning - I have to say, I didnt feel pregnant but if AF stays away, then she stays away, right?! But then I just went to the loo and the bl**dy witch has arrived. 3 days late! I cant believe it as was really starting to get my hopes up - I'm never late

So definitely onto month 4 for me...

I thought I would feel ok about it but I dont. I want to cry and I cant because I'm in an open plan office and everyone will see.

How is everyone else feeling? So, so fed up of this TTC malarkey. And I know 4 months isnt that long but it feels like absolutely forever...



xx

Oh no that's poo
Fingers crossed this will be our month tho!

Time seems to go forever when you're ttc, I'm on CD5 and already it's feeling like the longest week ever!
Just want to get to the ovulation bit then rush through to the am I aren't I bit! Haha

 

[Fleur29]

Thanks Littlemum - I know, I just want the next month to whizz past - but then I feel so bad as every month that goes by, my dd grows up a little bit more and I feel like i'm wishing her childhood away. I'm a drama queen, I know!!!

I just wish AF could've turned up on saturday/Sunday when I was prepared for it - what is the point of being 3 days late? I was so good at not getting my hopes up this month and then for AF not to show, well thats got to be a good sign hasnt it?! and then she shows up anyway!? I HATE HER!!!!!!

 

[LittleMum]

I got pregnant with DD first cycle and had been told it would take 6-12 months by my doctor as I'd been on the pill so long so really wasn't expecting anything to happen so didn't take any notice of ovulation etc. but this time round I don't know what's happened to me?! I think that because I'm more aware of how it all works I've got a bit ttc obsessed.
Last month I didn't chart etc but kept a look out for ovulation pains etc then became a POAS addict when AF didn't show!! Haha
Ended up having a 35 day cycle so was chuffed when AF finally did arrive.

Now I'm on cd5 and completely confused about what to do! I'm ok with not getting pregnant straight away as actually works out better for us if it doesn't happen for another 3 months or so due to plans already in place but I can't help but feel that it needs to happen quickly or I've failed?!! WTF?????

Already feel something might be wrong as didn't conceive first cycle, mental I know.

Anyway, rant is almost ever I promise.
So, logical part of my brain says it will happen when it happens, but the crazy part has gone out and bought OPKs, a thermometer and downloaded the fertility friend app!! Hahahaha

 

[Fleur29]

I know what you mean re feeling like you've failed - now we are onto month 4 I've not beaten myself from last time around - if that makes sense? how crazy is that?! I just assumed it would be so much easier this time around - not harder

I cant decide whether to go down the OPK route or not yet - I said that I wouldnt until after Xmas but I am starting to think I should. Think I will leave it a couple of days until I'm feeling more sane and then maybe treat myself to a CBFM - I know I'm too late to start with it this month as you need it for CD1 but then at least I'll have it for the month after (Though pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease can by BFP happen before then??!!!)

God I'm so glad I have you lot - we've not told anyone we are TTC (and planning to keep it that way) and its so hard when you have all these emotions going on about it and no one to talk to (lets be honest - most men dont get it do they?!)

XX

 

[CastawayBride]

HI ladies

Well I thought I would update you! I was feeling very hopeful this month as AF, due on saturday, still hadnt put in an appearance this morning - I have to say, I didnt feel pregnant but if AF stays away, then she stays away, right?! But then I just went to the loo and the bl**dy witch has arrived. 3 days late! I cant believe it as was really starting to get my hopes up - I'm never late

So definitely onto month 4 for me...

I thought I would feel ok about it but I dont. I want to cry and I cant because I'm in an open plan office and everyone will see.

How is everyone else feeling? So, so fed up of this TTC malarkey. And I know 4 months isnt that long but it feels like absolutely forever...



xx

ps Castaway, hope your appt goes well today!

Fleur my fingers are crossed this is your month and thank you, I will let you know what the doctor says This is an amazing feat, can't wait for the doctor to realize just how far from the big O we were!

 

[Fleur29]

Thanks sweetie. I'm sad we wont be bump buddies, I really thought this was my month when AF showed up late (she's never late!! never!!!!!)

Anyway do keep us posted - hopefully we can all join you on the first tri board soon...!

XX

 

[babydust1]

Hi ladies ive currently been in hospital what was thought was a kidney infection showed up to be a misscarrige around 8 weeks =( been in since Friday and just got out today I didn't even know I was pregnant I was still having periods :'( ill catch up in a bit as in a daze right now....

 

[babydust1]

Thank god for scans cuz the bloods never picked it up till I bled :'(

 

[Fleur29]

OMG babydust1! Big big hugs to you. I'm sorry to hear you've had a rough weekend of it - but thank god that the scans picked it up. Why do doctors always say something is a kidney infection/UTI? My friend had a similar thing when she was miscarrying one of her twins

Take care of yourself, keep us updated as to how you are. Ugh today is rubbish!!!!! XX

 

[CastawayBride]

Thank god for scans cuz the bloods never picked it up till I bled :'(

Babydust, so sorry to hear this! I hope you recover quickly!!!

 

[CastawayBride]

Thanks sweetie. I'm sad we wont be bump buddies, I really thought this was my month when AF showed up late (she's never late!! never!!!!!)

Anyway do keep us posted - hopefully we can all join you on the first tri board soon...!

XX

I would have loved it too, maybe you will be there sooner then later I sure hope so!

I went to the doctor and we really liked him! He is having us back October 13th I will be either 7/8 wks by that point so we can confirm the pregnancy and do a complete visit. He also said he is giving us his personal cell due to what we have been through so if I ever need him or have questions after hours he will be there for us! Totally happy and relieved!

 

[Fleur29]

Ah castaway I'm so pleased it went well, he sounds like a lovely doctor.

Well I've spent this evening feeling very sorry for myself but hopefully will be in a better place tomorrow! Toying with buying a cbfm for next month.... (I so wish I had got it for this month now - arghhggg!)