Anyone wanna be tww buddies?

[Mrs. Vet]

Continueing to cross my fingers for you girls!

When I was in the park today with our dog I had to turn around shirtly after I arrived because I got very dizzy and felt dehydrated. I did drink lots of water before I left and had lunch so I'm sure it wasn't being hungry or dehydrated. I have been thirsty all day!
Not sure if it's the heat or really early pregnancy signs but without being sure if I ovulated I think it's the weather.
I took my temp again this afternoon and it is higher than it normally is at that time so I'm hoping for it to go up in the morning now too!
I will have no idea when I ovulated though with all that OPK chaos... If it is up tomorrow I'll consider myself 1dpo.

 

[Mrs. Vet]

Temp is a bit higher this morning but not high enough to confirm ovulation. I am ready to give up, I don't believe anymore that I have ovulated at all...

 

[steph_466]

Awe im sorry Mrs.Vet.

 

[Nicole R.]

I'm so sorry Indie. I thought I really saw something on those tests, I'm sorry if I made it worse.

 

[Nicole R.]

Mrs.vet, sorry to hear about your frustrations. I felt like that last month and I don't believe I O'ed either. I'm now in the tww ladies. 3dpo! I bought some dollar tree tests, only four so I'm not testing until 12-ishdpo. I'm nervous this month, we have had a lot of kife changes my husband was wrongully fired due to race. 6 more weeks until his unemployment will go through. We contacted a lawyer who said he only considers every 1 out of ten "employment" cases but he took the case as soon as he heard roberts story. So if I do not get pregnant this month I have to take a break and find a job. The fetal medicine specialist i would have to see would nnot let me work past 14 weeks when I got my cerclage. So I'm a little bummed

 

[Mrs. Vet]

Mrs.vet, sorry to hear about your frustrations. I felt like that last month and I don't believe I O'ed either. I'm now in the tww ladies. 3dpo! I bought some dollar tree tests, only four so I'm not testing until 12-ishdpo. I'm nervous this month, we have had a lot of kife changes my husband was wrongully fired due to race. 6 more weeks until his unemployment will go through. We contacted a lawyer who said he only considers every 1 out of ten "employment" cases but he took the case as soon as he heard roberts story. So if I do not get pregnant this month I have to take a break and find a job. The fetal medicine specialist i would have to see would nnot let me work past 14 weeks when I got my cerclage. So I'm a little bummed

Thank you!
That is a lot to deal with! I hope you guys can sue them and get some money to make it easier! How sad that there are still people like that out there!

I will test next week or so just in cade, I have 2 dollar tree tests and 2 FRER.
We go to the US next month and I will get a bunch of tests then and bring them, somehow I like them better than the German ones! lol

 

[River54]

IndieGirl
Mrs Vet - so sorry to hear
Nicole - great that you are on 3dpo now Wow to the life changes, and what happened. I hope everything works out well for you.

afm - my temp dropped down a bit, and I have cramps, and alot less progesterone symptoms now. Bfn again today, so I guess I am out.
I overrode ff to make more sense with what I think O day was. Thinking about calling the fs today and saying I'll probably be getting af this weekend, so then ask what we should do. The next step was IUI, but we're away again for a week starting mid next week, and I think the timing would not work out for it. So maybe just a natural cycle and try and relax...I dunno. Almost 2 years now and never even a hint of a bfp, wth is wrong? /rant

 

[Nicole R.]

River,
That must be so frustrating. How many months did the doctor want you to try Clomid? I really think he should try to up your dosage. My friend was on Clomid for 8-9months. She was ovulating but never got pregnant until they finally upped her to 100mg. Idk if she got pregnant bc of the higher dosage or if it was just her time. It took her three years to have a baby. My other friend did Clomid for a year before she tried IUI. She fell pregnant with twins on her first IUI cycle. She has two beautiful little girls. I know you may feel like this will never happen for you, but even jf you do have tk consider IUI, you would have a decent success rate with IUI. They seem to have that procedure down to a science now. Try to stay positive hunny. I can only imagine how you feel.

Ok I have a question for you ladies. I never get EWCM. Ever. Maybe one other time. But today my cervix is HSO and I have EWCM. Do you think I could be ovulating today? Or still fertile at 3dpo? The day before my temp shift my cervix was extremely open just not very high and soft. Today seems ideal.

 

[Nicole R.]

Well I just checked my cervix and its not open anymore. What the heck? Lol we were going to get a quick BD in. I just checked it two hours ago and now it completely changed. Firm and closed. Ewcm is barely there. Maybe I did ovulate three days ago and my fertile window is up

 

[IndieGirl]

Nicole, I'm pretty sure I had a chemical pregnancy. I'm gonna talk to my dr about it Thursday.

 

[Nicole R.]

Well I just checked my cervix and its not open anymore. What the heck? Lol we were going to get a quick BD in. I just checked it two hours ago and now it completely changed. Firm and closed. Ewcm is barely there. Maybe I did ovulate three days ago and my fertile window is up

 

[Nicole R.]

Indie- I think you may have also. :Hugs:

 

[River54]

Nicole - thx - as for your symptoms and chart, I'd say if you hardly ever got ewcm, and you did get some now, you may well be O'ing today.
IndieGirl - I think you are right about the chemical.

I am spotting already now. Waiting to call the fs today to see what we should do this next cycle. The original plan with the fs was to try 3 cycles of clomid, then 3 cycles of IUI. But with us being away now, may have to do a natural cycle. I did find some softcups in the store the other day...of course there was a guy on a ladder stocking pads right where they were..awkward!

 

[steph_466]

Hey ladies just reading your posts on clomid there. Its probably different here in Canada, but they wont let us be on the drug for more than six months because it increases your chance of cancer to much. Weird eh?

Sorry to see you tough month here Indie Hoe things get better for you soon!

Nicole, I agree I think you may have ovulated the day you had the ewcm. What does it hurt to try then anyways? Crossing my fingers for ya!

I called my doctor today and I turns out I ovulated on my first round of clomid!! So happy then I dont have to up the doseage next month Im not pregnant, af showed up today, pretty painful one so far, hopefully it means it will be a short one to. Doing a happy dance!

 

[Nicole R.]

Yeah my doctor says a year. Some says 6 months but I told my doctor I didn't care if it increased the chance I want a baby! Lol I was so desperate. Glad to hear you O'ed!! How exciting!

I'm on the opposite schedule of yalls. My tww begins when yalls end. Dont forget about me ladies I go crazy talking tk myself lmbo. Literally.

I'm not symptom spotting this month. I'm not over analyzing my chart I'm just playing it cool. Lol

 

[Mrs. Vet]

Indie - I'm so sorry, i wasso hoping this would be your bfp!
Nicole I would do some BD just to be sure!

Temp is slightly up again this morning, not a lot but I hope it will be enough!
What is really weird: if I look at the temps I took 2 hours after getting up I can see a temp shift very clearly!

 

[River54]

Steph - Interesting...I never really asked about it. The fs just laid out a plan, and suggested we take the drug for 3 cycles, then try IUI for 3 cycles. I wonder if we'll do IUI with clomid. I am in BC too

Nicole - I'll be around I need the distraction!

Mrs Vet - do you have a chart you can post?

 

[Mrs. Vet]

Here is my chart again. I change the settings to OPK only as the temps are too frustrating for me! lol I seriously doubt I actually ovulated though...

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4435a4//thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart

 

[Mrs. Vet]

I have been spotting AGAIN this morning! Now only brownish discharge again.
And really bad cramps and overall feeling like crap! Not sure if AF is gearing up early but normally I never felt like this with AF coming ever since I stopped the pill.
If there is no AF coming I'm calling my doctor tomorrow morning and ask about getting checked about the spotting, this is getting old...

 

[Nicole R.]

Fx for you vet!