I'm super surprised at the elastic as well! BGs were our first, and since then I've definitely wanted to buy more of different brands to kind of test out what we like and what we don't.
It isn't just about care of the diapers though, the regular detergent causes buildup too. If you find your diapers aren't absorbing well or are stinking try stripping them and see if that helps. Did you ever end up finding the original blue Dawn?
I only know the way to strip for BGs, I've never stripped FBs or HH.
I hope it worked for you!
Love love LOVE the Apple Cheeks!!! I took pictures but then got so absorbed with Claire's birthday pictures that I forgot to upload them.
The liners need to be washed a few more times. At first I was looking at them and thinking that they weren't that much more trim than the BGs, but then I got her into some pants and noticed the difference.
They aren't as trim as disposables, but tbh I don't think any cloth diaper on the market at this time is. Unless of course you are getting into the gDiapers with the disposable inserts. I might try out a BG Flip, just cuz.
I can't say I like the snaps though. I'm not that good with getting them done up and they just look strange to me.
I'll get used to it though! Thank god (for now) Claire hasn't figured out she can take her diaper off!