Rebecca I know potty training is so hard! Especially once you throw in sleep deprivation. But I've also heard and read that putting him back in diapers when he wants to be in underwear is to be avoided if you can. (Side story, my sister did that with her son at night bc they didn't want to deal with wet bed when they both had work in the morning, and they avoided it for too long. Now he still has nighttime wetness issues, and he is over 6. Obviously there's more to it for them). Could he wear a pull-up to bed instead of a diaper, at least? And as soon as he wakes up dry one or two mornings, go back to undies (with a waterproof pad on the bed, of course!)? You can get through this, as long as you're not pushing him past what he's ready to do then it's better not to go backwards if you can help it. Of course, I have also been there where you just have to take a break, so don't feel bad if that's where you are!!
Counting I'm so sorry about your MIL! Is it possible that your mom or DH said something to her about how she acted last pregnancy, and that's why she's keeping quiet this time? Maybe she doesn't know how to do it halfway? I don't know, MILs are so weird, I can never get a handle on what mine is thinking either. After 13+ years in each others' lives, we just try to be civil and ignore each other's faults. I think that may be as good as its going to get with us!
I am so excited to hear about everyone's scans! I can't believe anyone who even considers having another baby when their first one is still fresh out! Of course babies terrify me, so I am not the person to ask.. XD
Dini! Congrats on the blue bump! Yaaay, we are totally bump buddies!
Have fun finding out with DH, I can't wait to hear about his reaction.
I totally forgot everyone else I wanted to reply to... crap.
My anxiety has been a little better today. I think getting more sleep, exercising, trying not to eat too much sugar, and drinking enough water will help. I need to start going to yoga ASAP. Other than that, I just have to breathe and remember that it's all going to be okay.
I haven't had any dreams about this baby. I'm not that interested in settling on a name or getting the nursery ready or shopping for him. It still doesn't feel real, even though I can feel him kicking and wiggling around several times a day. Some part of me just isn't convinced that we're having a baby, and I feel really guilty about it, like there's something wrong with me. I think it's more likely just part of the depression/ anxiety (which really annoys me because life is really good right now! I hate my brain chemistry sometimes!), but it's making me sad. I want to get excited and bond with this baby. Has anyone else felt like this? I was scared when I was pregnant with DD, but I was still excited and was bonding with her. This time just feels so different.
The tech said he wasn't allowed to tell me the results of the ultrasound. My doctor had to do that. But he did tell me that her heart is perfectly developed because I had remarked on how clear all 4 chambers of the heart were. I am not an expert, but I saw clear images of her brain, kidneys, heart, stomach, etc. And everything looked great to me. I did not see him making any notes of concerns either. 
Good luck!
