I'm with Dana on the sleep, we always have been and still are very firm when it comes to sleep. Less so in the evenings as we're lucky and if they stay up late they tend to sleep in a bit later, but apart from the odd off night generally both my kids now sttn.
Though Eddie is testing us atm, he was up for 2hours NYE, which he never does, then he's been a nightmare napping the past few days and going to bed in the evenings. Today he totally skipped his nap and we thought that'd mean he'd go to bed tonight but he was still bouncing around at 7.30 tonight, he was asleep by 7.45 though after a bit of gentle persuasion and a few tears. He will not sleep in our bed either, even when I think he might he doesn't, just thinks its funny, yet not so many months ago I had to really persuade him out of our bed, sigh! Got a horrible feeling he's dropping his naps already :/, there have been a fair few days lately where he's not napped normal time then had 15mins on someones lap when he kinda passed out later in the day, he's not even 18mths yet, sob! lol