April mummies baby club :-)

[mummy to be]

hahahaha opps sorry Jen lol... Stringy not stinky lol Hahhahaha sorry

Laura - hey hey welcome back

Ashy - ohhh i hope its beef i dont eat pork lol

How did everyone go with their labour?? Tearing? ripping? Grazes???

I didnt get anything.. no grazing, tearing or ripping.. just really really really bruised!!!! Still to this date feel bruised and sore!!!

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Oh Mandy you lucky thing!!

I had the works, had to have the cut, then a 3rd degree tear that migrates to the right hand side.. I had lots and lots of stitches that have all come un-done and I was very VERY swollen and bruised! .. If the ventouse hadn't worked then I would've had to have an emergency c-section!

But now though I am in no pain what so ever.. it hasn't once hurt me to go to the toilet, no stinging or anything! Which I thought was really odd considering all I went through!!

xXx

 

[MelanieSweets]

Nope i am still bleeding from the birth... wonder how long that will last for?
How long did it last for everyone else?

Layla lost her belly button thingy today hehehehe sooo proud lol.. in a weird kinda way lol... is that normal lol?

We had a big day out at the May Day Fair here and she was soooo unsettled this afternoon when he got home... she fed for almost a hour straight lol.... Hungry little girl.

I am feeling very emtional tonight... Allan has one more day left with Layla and I at home then he back to work..... i am feeling a little scared about it... Allans mum is still here with us untill Sunday but not having Allan here is going to be weird....

Hello ladies, aww huns I am still bleeding too but its very light at first it hurt to pee and i dreaded going to toilet but is ok now ... and i was dreading my first poop

Yeh Ridleys cord came off on a few days ago i was so proud hehe ... i put it on OH's bedside table as pressie for him xx

I know what you mean about being alone, i had 1day with OH since coming out of hospital due to him starting a new job i miss him terribly x it is scarey but you will get into more of a routine with little one x

How are all you other ladies doing ?

Juliette I am sorry to hear about your kitty, lots of friendly for you huns xx

 

[mz_jackie86]

I had a small graze but it was so deep that i lost a pint of blood from it so had stinkin stitches!! Was very scared when i had to go loo but luckily its only lil bit of bruisin now!!!!

Had the bbq and Arianna was the belle of the ball lol everyone loved her!!!

Is anyone gettin their little uns christened??
If so or not what r ur reasons?? JUst bein nosy??? xx

 

[Shinning_Star]

ok, wow sooo much too say
hannah: i hope you got home hun, i txt but you didn't recognise my number! lol.

mama2b: sooo sorry abt your cat.

Everyone: lol I bled for abt 3 weeks, but after a week I stopped using mat pads and used night time pads, then for another week, I had funny dischargy stuff that looked awful much similar to jenny by sound of it and I used panty liners for those days. Although I still got gushes now & again.

We as soon as bleeding + discharge stopped but was gagging for it long before. It didn't hurt at all infact was very nice no lube or booze needed.

If you have a mirena coil there are two options one has a hormone in as well, which stops ovulation and implantation, but the non hormone one the egg is still fertilised it just doesn't implant so it's kinda like a miscarriage. I just though I'd let people know cos it changed my mind first time round, also your periods can be heavier for above reason, and some people can feel it, I could everytime i bent over and was horrible. I think cos I had it fitted at four weeks and my uterus was still changing shape.

This time round I'm going for implant or chip & pin as i keep calling it lol. But although I c have it now wanna wait for my first period to know my body is back to normal. nothing yet seven weeks in.

Phew I think thats everything, Olivia doing well, although still under the weather bless her.

catch you all l8r this taking ages to type cos Olivia not being put down today! And my baby's a March baby but still gorgeous. lol

 

[sam*~*louize]

Damn forgotten who typed it now, brain freeze lol - changing to a sa pad then it gushes again - i soooo had ths lol. was like " ooh its stopping, then woooooooah its back"

Have had nothing allday today though, which is nice - so maybe it is now stopping (2 weeks old) need a ticker up! Feeling so much better in myself today, boobies aren;'t sore anymore, down there is almost normal after cut and stitches, belly is FLAT when i stand up, have a little tyre when i sit down lol! Was sooo not looking forward to big saggy belly - but Layla was kind somehow and made it go back

Got her a bouncy chair today - need to keeep her upright after her feed or she is little sicky. She has been asleep in it now for about an hour lol! Think she likes it, it doesn't go flat which is a shame, but was only £15 in Asda in their Baby Event Have tucked a blanket under her for now cos it has no head hugger!

As for - jesus you lot are in horny moods lol! Think it's coming back a bit for me - but not on contraception yet - don't want to go back on the pill, took a while to get it out of my system and to catch, and just would rather be off it now (was on it for 9ish years) but don't like the idea of rubbery condoms lol!

 

[JeffsWife07]

Hey ladies!

IKWUM Sammie DH don't want to wear a condom but he might have to.

I keep helping DH out & now my discharge has stopped and I go to the doc Tuesday so I'm expecting some sexxy time very soon.

I gotta go take my midterm exam, I'll be back on laters.

 

[lyndsey3010]

Ooooh good luck chas.

 

[JeffsWife07]

Thanks hun
I made a 100.

 

[Shinning_Star]

WELL DONE! I've had to drop my course unfortunately as this year i just can'tkeep up and fell behind whilst bf etc. so hopefully on gear to start again next jan/feb.

Right well Olivia has finally settled she has not slept all day unless in someones arms, finally she's asleep in her cot so i'm grabbing some kip as i feel abs shattered and still have ear ache. She'll prob wake for a feed in an hour but who knows as she's been all over the place today. so night for now ladies.

 

[Mummy&bump]

oh my i am slow lol i have only just realised that there was a baby and todler bit, iv been hanging around postnatal for 2 weeks now haha

how is every getting on now our lazy april babies finally showed there little faces?

xxx

 

[mz_jackie86]

Soooo PISSED!!!

Ariannas dad has time to go on facebook but dont have the time to send one poxy text to see how is daughter is when he hasnt even met her!!!

Fuckin PRICK!!!

Sorry girls so annoyed!!!!

 

[mummy to be]

Oh Jacqui. that is rude!!!! Have a go at him!!!! I cant believe he has not met his adorable amazing little girl!!! I would be chomping at the bit to get to her if i was him!!!!

Good to see that i am not the only horny one on here lol..... OH is getting very satisfied but it is kinda making me worse in a way lol...

Mel - Yes i am the same.. it is still kinda hurting to wee... uncomfortable is more the word but yeah.. i dread going to wee... No2's are a different story.. they are not to bad! But still uncomfortable.

Layla is happily sleeping away today. She was awake for alot of yesterday (we went out to the fair) and then slept from 6pm till 10pm - fed from 10 to 10.45 then was awake and checking everything out till about 1am then fed again then slept till 4am then fed then slept untill 8am fed then now is asleep again hehehee...

Is anyone finding that their little ones are feeding for longer??? Layla is just over a week old and her feeding time has increased to about 30-45mins.... she is going from one boob to the other then back to the other one... lol it is odd..... Is she the only one doing this?

god i am lucky to have you girls to chat to about all these things!!!! i would be lost without you lot....

 

[starryeye31]

Hey ladies!

IKWUM Sammie DH don't want to wear a condom but he might have to.

I keep helping DH out & now my discharge has stopped and I go to the doc Tuesday so I'm expecting some sexxy time very soon.

I gotta go take my midterm exam, I'll be back on laters.

lol Just be careful Chas , DH And I did it last night and the condom broke , Just my luck good thing I made him pull out , I never trust condoms , We bought the kind with spermacide too so I think im ok , If I end up knocked up again Id be furious . I told dh no more sex untill the birth control pills kick in , Im not taking any more chances .

 

[mummy to be]

hehehehe i would be the same...... i have told Allan that he is going to have to wait untill i know for SURE that the mini pill has taken effect. I couldnt bear to fall pregnant straight away. I want to spend as much time with my little girl as possible.....

Starry - i would have shit myself if that happened to me........ eeeep.... you should be ok but if you did everything right. would have been worth it but

 

[JeffsWife07]

Hey ladies!

IKWUM Sammie DH don't want to wear a condom but he might have to.

I keep helping DH out & now my discharge has stopped and I go to the doc Tuesday so I'm expecting some sexxy time very soon.

I gotta go take my midterm exam, I'll be back on laters.

lol Just be careful Chas , DH And I did it last night and the condom broke , Just my luck good thing I made him pull out , I never trust condoms , We bought the kind with spermacide too so I think im ok , If I end up knocked up again Id be furious . I told dh no more sex untill the birth control pills kick in , Im not taking any more chances .

OMG hun......now I'm scared to death to have sexxy time.
My luck I would get pregnant right away as we tried so long for Marissa and had given up when I finally got preggie. Just my luck I would get preggie right away.

 

[mummy to be]

awwwww...... that would be just my luck as well.. which is why i am quiet happy to wait untill my mini pill kicks in lol....

 

[mama2b]

Soooo PISSED!!!

Ariannas dad has time to go on facebook but dont have the time to send one poxy text to see how is daughter is when he hasnt even met her!!!

Fuckin PRICK!!!

Sorry girls so annoyed!!!!

Oh no thats awful, when do you think he will meet her ?

 

[mama2b]

thanks for the messages about my cat, one of our neighbours found her in the road dead and took her home then put a note through our door. Took her to my mum and dads to bury her, i am heartbroken. She was with me all the way through my pregnancy, infact we got her a week before i found out i was pregnant and i lost her 2 weeks after lucas was born

We are moving house today and she should of been coming with us

I probably won't have internet for a few weeks either, so im going to end up with bnb withdrawel symptoms.

 

[sam*~*louize]

glad someone kept her safe for you though hun, and you got to bury her like you wanted x

Layla slept 10.30 - 4.30 last night, she's done this twice in her first week and this night too now! Be great if that was every night