April mummies baby club :-)

[QueenMummyToBe]

Haha Dana feel free to have words with him I told him last night I've found the ring I want haha
It is a good job we have that kind of relationship, we know we will get married one day so we aren't awkward about talking about it

I got season 1 & 2 of CSI for my birthday and I've turned Amelia into a fan.. when it is on she is nice and quiet

Hope you are all okay!!

xXx

 

[danapeter36]

jen is v. welcome forgot she lives near you lol.

Ashy thats great Peter and I were like that xxx

 

[HannahGraceee]

major rant 1pm

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

I'm here to listen Hanny
Hope you are okay sweetie

Dana - yay and you two got married I have lots of hope now!!

xXx

 

[HannahGraceee]

Im so pissed off with marc is unbealivable, i think hes trying to control me! turn him into some one else!
he tries to control how i spend my money, or if i use my debit card or cash! he always trys to make me look around for the cheapest option well thats ok, but if i want something like avas cot, he'll try and make me go get it from some internet site ive never heard of, like i wanna put my card details on a site ive never heard anything about!! and i wanted to buy her a jumperooo today, but marc said if you buy that im walking out of this shop and you wont be able to carry it home by yourself!
and i bought 4 nursing bras from debenhams and he had a go at me cos it was too much! £37 isnt too much! its MY MONEY!!

we dont cuddle! we were in bed last night and i had to ask like 100 times for a kiss then kissed him and said kissing you makes my tummy have butterflys and my heart go all loved up, hes responce to that is " Im not a love sick teenager, and were not romeo and ruillete and i dont even feel like that" its not fair i know he doesnt feel the same about me

& i say I LOVE YOU before i go to bed, and he says yeh ok, then i go marc!! and he goes GRR love you too, like he doesnt even care and its such a i cant be arse voice!!

and another thing! he always says im seeking for approval from my mum!! just because when she gets home from work i go give her a cuddle and ask her how her day is and get her a cup of coffee! or when i come back from shopping i show her what ive bought!
or if me and marc have a agrument i will tell my mum i dont understand why hes like that, i love my mum and shes like my bestfriend so why wouldnt i tell her anything and everything!


i dont know what to do!!

 

[chel27]

major rant 1pm

whats up sweetie?

 

[mz_jackie86]

Aw han hope ur ok!!! xx

I personally dnt wanna get married, but then again i never wanted kids so who knows lol...i just see so many ending in divorce and dnt think its worth it!!

Whats everyone doing today??? xx

 

[mz_jackie86]

Hannah what u need to do is slap him!!!!!!!!

He isnt acting like someone who is in love im sorry to say, and u deserve a decent relationship!

Dont take his crap hun! You dont deserve it!! x

 

[MelanieSweets]

Han i agree with Jackie actually, i think he is treating you so unfairly, he was obviously all nice and lovely when you had had the babe and now he is back to being how he was... question you have to ask yourself is this what you want ? always having to ask for a kiss and cuddle etc because it will probably always be like that with him. I think you can do better chik x

Hello everyone else, hahaha ....has anyone started to go to any baby groups, i really want to but am so freekin scared, I do however have baby reflexology tomorrow morning ... nervous much xx

 

[danapeter36]

Hanny babe.
Of course you speak to your mum. I am sure Marc speaks to his parents too, it's what we do. He should be pleased you have such a wonderful relationship with her, if he loves you, he will encourage the positive relationships in your life.

It sounds like he's losing interest again. You need to remind him of all the wonderful things you have done, delivering your beautiful daughter. She didn't arrive by magic, you carried her for 9 months. You need to also remind him you are the same person he fell in love with, and that he needs to realise you may be 'mum' now, but you are still his girlfriend. His lack of respect for you really gets to me because you should not have to look for validation all the time. He should feel so grateful to have a woman who stands by him, and loves him, who would do anything for him.

As for him having an opinion on what you spend your money on, as you say it is not his money. Being controlling over you will only push you away. Ask him what feeds his daughter, because he needs to realise nursing bras are not fancy trendy items, they are a neccessity. Lets face it, they are just a practical cover for our babys food!

Sending loads of love your way Hanny xxx

 

[danapeter36]

Melanie do u fancy meeting up some time next week?

 

[HannahGraceee]

Thats exactly what i said to make!! they arent for me they are for ava!! she cant get to her food as quickly if i have to take my bra half off just to feed her!!

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Hanny - Oh how I would love to hit him for you.. want me to send Dan round? He is a big lad

You shouldn't ever have to ask for a kiss or a cuddle.. it is a relationship and he needs to show some love towards you! I still think it is shocking that you have to arrange sex with him.. most men would jump for joy to have a girlfriend with such a sex drive!!

Do you fancy giving me some of your sex drive? Mine has gone major downhill

Mel - I've only been to the young mums club and everyone had toddlers no newborns.. and I'm too scared to go to the newborn mummies club I hate having no confidence! I need to find Dan a job down south so I can be near all you ladies!

I've just rang tax credits and I've got a nice big back payment through

And I'm still waiting for CAB to give me and Dan an appointment to sort out his debts.. he is getting loads of letters through from everyone saying pay money now but CAB has told him not to pay until they speak to them.. Oh the headaches!!

xXx

 

[HannahGraceee]

ash do you have to ask for your tax credits to be backdated or will it do it automaticly?

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

ash do you have to ask for your tax credits to be backdated or will it do it automaticly?

They do it automatically!

I didn't even know I'd had the money put in my bank because they haven't sent me any letters about it.. As soon as I get the letters I can send off for the surestart grant

xXx

 

[mz_jackie86]

Ash how comes u haven't claimed your sure start grant yet? x

 

[chel27]

girls im leaving BNB just to let you all know.....message me if you want my email address to keep in touch.

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Aww Chel

Is your email address the one on Facebook sweets?

xXx

 

[chel27]

Aww Chel

Is your email address the one on Facebook sweets?

xXx

didnt know it was on there.....if its btinternet one then yes.

 

[mz_jackie86]

Owww chel noooooooooooooo!!