ladyred -- I do a little more than I should, but nothing like you're doing! I lift 40lb bags of dog food and 50lb bags of chicken feed but that's really the only no-no I've done so far. TMI, I've had yellow mucousy cm this whole pregnancy so far instead of the creamy white cm I had early on with dd.

I don't think I have an infection or anything.

Guess I'll ask at my appointment on Monday. And you can have all the meat. Just the thought of anything other than chicken breast is nauseating to me right now.
bitsysarah -- I have a very high bmi right now (though bmi doesn't mean much to me because I'm quite a bit smaller than most women my weight -- my goal weight, at which point I'll likely be a US size 6 or 8, is still considered "overweight" in bmi terms -- it's bs). I was considered "obese" by about 15 pounds by bmi when I got pregnant with dd and then I didn't lose the 40 pounds I gained with her between pregnancies.

I'm still 30 pounds lighter than my highest weight ever, but I'm about 80 pounds heavier than I'd like to be, ideally. Best to just make healthy food choices and exercise daily. I don't expect to gain much weight with this pregnancy. 10 pounds or less is my goal, that way I should be a few pounds less than I am now a couple weeks after delivery.

The twinges are normal, I think. I had them early on with both of my pregnancies.
soph77 -- Yay! Glad you had a good scan!
Sharon -- I'm sorry. I'm so glad you have a positive outlook!!
kristyrich -- I haven't told my father, yet either. For a different reason -- I'm kind of over him. I don't know that I'll even bother. I know it will hurt him if I don't tell him personally but I don't know that I really care. He's a bad father and a terrible grandfather.

He has terrible depression and anxiety as well. Got much worse when my brother died last year. But that's still no excuse for the way he acts.
doggylover -- yes, it's normal for ms to come and go. I was sick as a dog yesterday and the day before. Been sick a little today but not nearly as bad. Be glad for your better days!!
lili24 --
TTC2308 -- Congrats!!!!
dan-o -- I'm torn between wanting time to drag and wanting it to speed along. I guess I'd like it to speed up through 1st tri and then slow down. I planned for my babies to be close in age but I'm panicking a bit about it now.
teresarhuebb -- Awesome on the facebook page, I'd like to join!
dopplers - I alwas had best luck early on with dd when my bladder was painfully full.

Later on, Maisie used to kick at it constantly and I'd be about deaf from all the noise.