LittleSpy
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You can become skilled in hand expression and then wouldn't need a pump at all. Lactation consultants will tell you that when you master hand expression, it's actually much more efficient than a pump. Or you can get a manual pump. But one thing I learned last time is never discount the possibility that your baby will refuse to nurse. It's the craziest thing, but out of a group of 15 women I was friends with who were pregnant together when I was with #1, 3 of us had babies who refused to nurse.
And trust me when I say we tried and tried and tried because exclusively pumping is so much more work than nursing! But I wouldn't worry about it unless it happens, then buy or rent an electric pump if that's what it comes down to. 
3/15 means it's much more likely that your baby will nurse than won't! You know, plus that's a terribly small sample size. It just blew my mind because that is not something I ever even once considered as a breastfeeding complication when I was pregnant! I figured my baby had breast aversion because I had a low supply but the other 2 women produced plenty (maybe too much and that was the issue? forceful letdown?).
I didn't know about them and I often feel like if I had known, I wouldn't have had some of the problems I did. Part of our problem early on is that LO had a horrible latch. I remember both of us getting so frustrated becuse we'd have to try so many times to get her latched on correctly at each feeding. Very overwhelming. We had a boob/mouth size mismatch in the beginning and I think the LC had unrealistic expectations for her latch. I should have just left it alone, I think, but instead I was insistant that it be perfect each time. 
I think a nipple shield would have helped that for sure and really would have taken down the frustration levels of both of us. Of course it's all speculation because I can't go back and try something different in that situation but I wouldn't discount using a nipple shield this time around at all. In fact, I plan to have one ready to go in case I need it first thing. 
So, if you need to supplement, I HIGHLY recommend supplmenting with a supplemental nursing system. I think that's where my lc really screwed the pooch with me last time - She recommended supplementing with a syringe and a finger. It was very difficult to do and that's why I started using the bottle after a couple of days of finger/syringe. A SNS makes so much more sense because if you're supplementing, that means you need more milk. What tells your body you need to produce more? More breast stimulation! Your body doesn't get that with finger-supplementation! 
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). I've heard many, many times about that shot drying up supply almost immediately. I took the progestin only pill for BC while breastfeeding and that thing messed. me. up. (no cycles and I was crazy emotional). Lots of women don't have a problem with it but I won't be doing it again. This time it'll be cycle-tracking and condoms all the way until I stop bfing.
Hope you feel better soon. The needing a drink thing.... Yep I have felt that way multiple times! You have the right to not feel like doing anything. Don't let your MIL get you down. Our hormones are rightfully all over the place & we have the RIGHT to feel like shit, be a littel "lazy" & get upset from time to time.... 
a good day! My nephew is the best thing and with lo in the mix too it's great!
