OMG those cupcakes are sooo cute!!!
After a week of a sleepy baby now my LO is moving regularly every afternoon right after tea! Plus I have the suspicion he loooves mandarin oranges!
Let me vent a little:
I have this friend and neighbor that she has an 1 year old daughter, and it is a blessing to have at least 1 woman friend that became a mother so recently. So I invited her for tea yesterday to chit chat, but the girl is totally out of line!
She started telling me I shouldn't get a cradle or a cot or any stuff :O She offered me the wicker basket that her daughter slept in when she was baby, and I said I would consider it but am afraid of how secure it is. If the baby is an energetic one the wicker basket can turn over easily, this is why I'm looking into cradles.
She went on and on about the cot, and that I shouldn't get one and just go and buy a regular single bed...
Then she said the thing I should consider most is the car seat. She knows that I don't have a car and I don't drive btw. I told her I will let this up to DH as I don't use a car, maybe only once a month or so.
Then we talked about DH's home office that will be moved to the library room, it has plenty of space and it makes more sense. The room he has his office right now is designed for a nursery with baby closet etc.
Of course she had an opinion on this one too, and told me that we have to find a bigger place for DH to have his own room too (as if a huge library with a view in the park is not enough), and that this place is not safe for babies.
She kept saying that I wasn't ready to be a mother, that the adjustments are huge, blah blah blah, overly patronizing, assuming, offensive etc... I didn't want to reply to her something equally offensive, so I just told her, "oh well we just have to wait and see how it goes right? It isn't like I can change my mind right now, can I?"
WTH???
BTW this is the woman that called me when she found out I was pregnant to tell me about
her horror labor of 3 whole hours!!!!
I can't deal with the crazies honestly!
Have a wonderful week everyone! This is my last week of work yay!