So my point was that here, cost isn't an issue, as you "get back" in gifts what you pay for your guests. I know that's not normal in most places, but its just the way it is here.
That's basically how it works here in Canada too. Your gift should cover approx. the cost of your dinner. I can understand why some people would be against inviting children, my sister for example had a no kids wedding because their venue wasn't big enough for the extra head count, but I know for me personally I couldn't imagine having a wedding without children since the main reason for getting married was to start our own family... so it seemed weird to prevent people from bringing their children.
Some people get so hot and bothered about these arguments though it's a bit ridiculous. And how rude of that woman to insult your cultural norms!!
So... even though this may get me voted off the island... on the weight gain topic I have gained 30lbs... but I still fit into my magic pants with the button and the zipper and all (although if I sit down in them I feel as though I am crushing LO's brains with the waistband so I don't actually wear them anymore) and a whole bunch of my pre-preg clothes still fit too. Sweaters, dresses, stretchy tops, all sorts of things still fit, they just fit... differently
I have NO idea how much I've gained... I'm pretty much terrified to look. Based on my weigh-in at the Dr's though I think it's around 25 pounds.
I know it could be worse, but I was trying so hard to get into better shape before we got pregnant, that now it's a little depressing to see the number on the scale. I've never weighed this much in my life and I don't seem to lose weight very easily so I am a *little* bit worried about trying to take it off after LO is born.
Omg ladies.....I think this is it....Emmaleigh may have finally budged. Told Allen I think she is on her way and he was like who??? Crack head. Im going to hospital. I will keep you all updated.
Woohooo Momma! Keep up posted as best you can.
AFM, DH's party last night went well, but oh man did it go late! The point of having it on a work night was so it wouldn't be a late night... but that sure backfired! We didnt' get to bed till almost 2am! (and DH wakes up at 5:15 to get ready to work!) I kept asking him if he wanted to kick people out so we could go to bed, and he kept saying no, so it's his own fault really. I know I'M shattered today.. I imagine he must be too!
Also, last night it was apparently decided that we should host an Easter Dinner.
A bunch of our friends are single and dont' go home for holidays, and they asked if we were around on Sunday and wanted to do an Easter dinner. So now we're stuck hosting dinner. At least my sister and her wife are coming too, so we can count on one other person to contribute real food. Our friends love having potlucks here, except we loathe them because for the most part none of them really bring actual food to contribute! They'll bring some pastries... or a maybe a veggie tray... never actually cook anything! Which gets really frustrating after a while! Oh well. Guess I need to go buy a turkey or a large ham now.