, annoying huh!? did think about going to Dr's last week when had pain in my side but then it went away and I just couldn't lie! not too much longer until we hit 12 weeks!
but still enough nausea popping up to reassure me! fx;ed this is how it';ll stay now!
, people got nice plans for wkend? i'm seeing couple old fridays and going to tell them i'm pregnant!Can't wait! xx
, hope it all works out xx
Aww so sorry your parents have reacted like this loopey. Will they answer the phone to you? I'm just wondering whether they've misread the situation or thought something was said/done that wasn't?
If they won't talk, how about writing a well thought out letter re. how they've made you feel? try and get to the bottom of it and explain you are very much excited about getting married and having LO but that night in particular it was important to pack!
Now you'd love their input into planning the wedding!?
xx
Aww so sorry your parents have reacted like this loopey. Will they answer the phone to you? I'm just wondering whether they've misread the situation or thought something was said/done that wasn't?
If they won't talk, how about writing a well thought out letter re. how they've made you feel? try and get to the bottom of it and explain you are very much excited about getting married and having LO but that night in particular it was important to pack!
Now you'd love their input into planning the wedding!?
Think a wedding is now out of the question, tried to talk to them on the Sunday but nothing got through and without their help we can't afford it anyway at the moment.
Writing a letter is a great idea, think I'll leave it a bit longer though as I need to calm down before I say anything really... My Mum has always been a bit of an bully to me when she doesn't get her way, need to let her know I'm not taking it anymore without alienating her more.
I just wish you the best, and try not to fret over it. It seems a bit harsh what your mom said about "the words aren't right they don't make cards with disappointed and devastate on them." that's really mean! I'd be so hurt. Wish you the best sweetie.
Aww so sorry your parents have reacted like this loopey. Will they answer the phone to you? I'm just wondering whether they've misread the situation or thought something was said/done that wasn't?
If they won't talk, how about writing a well thought out letter re. how they've made you feel? try and get to the bottom of it and explain you are very much excited about getting married and having LO but that night in particular it was important to pack!
Now you'd love their input into planning the wedding!?
Think a wedding is now out of the question, tried to talk to them on the Sunday but nothing got through and without their help we can't afford it anyway at the moment.
Writing a letter is a great idea, think I'll leave it a bit longer though as I need to calm down before I say anything really... My Mum has always been a bit of an bully to me when she doesn't get her way, need to let her know I'm not taking it anymore without alienating her more.
In all honesty, you two should decided when you want to tie the knot. Not them. It should be good enough that you guys are thinking about it. Marriage is no more then a piece of paper especially if you are not religious. If you and your OH are committed to each other emotionally than marriage should only be if you want to and not because you have to.
it seems like a hard situation though. I know how it can be trying to please the family, but she shouldn't be like this to you while you are so emotional and fragile. First trimester is a great deal of emotions and the baby is taking a great deal from you still. You should be pampered-- not dealing with emotional melodrama.
Maybe i'm being emotional myself.
Aww so sorry your parents have reacted like this loopey. Will they answer the phone to you? I'm just wondering whether they've misread the situation or thought something was said/done that wasn't?
If they won't talk, how about writing a well thought out letter re. how they've made you feel? try and get to the bottom of it and explain you are very much excited about getting married and having LO but that night in particular it was important to pack!
Now you'd love their input into planning the wedding!?
Think a wedding is now out of the question, tried to talk to them on the Sunday but nothing got through and without their help we can't afford it anyway at the moment.
Writing a letter is a great idea, think I'll leave it a bit longer though as I need to calm down before I say anything really... My Mum has always been a bit of an bully to me when she doesn't get her way, need to let her know I'm not taking it anymore without alienating her more.
In all honesty, you two should decided when you want to tie the knot. Not them. It should be good enough that you guys are thinking about it. Marriage is no more then a piece of paper especially if you are not religious. If you and your OH are committed to each other emotionally than marriage should only be if you want to and not because you have to.
it seems like a hard situation though. I know how it can be trying to please the family, but she shouldn't be like this to you while you are so emotional and fragile. First trimester is a great deal of emotions and the baby is taking a great deal from you still. You should be pampered-- not dealing with emotional melodrama.
Maybe i'm being emotional myself.
are you married? i used to say the same thing until i was married. marriage is a serious commitment, but then so is having a baby (at least the way i was raised).
she may be more concerned about the image of it all, then actually thinking about what she's asking you to do. take some time away, let everything calm down. it may take a month or two even. my mother said some nasty things the last time i was pregnant (basically making it seem like it would be better if i terminated) and so i'm scared crapless to tell my parents this time. but i'm sure just like your mom, she will come around when the little bundle of sweet is in her arms. you never stop being a mom, no matter how old your kids are and i'm sure that's all this is.
Aww so sorry your parents have reacted like this loopey. Will they answer the phone to you? I'm just wondering whether they've misread the situation or thought something was said/done that wasn't?
If they won't talk, how about writing a well thought out letter re. how they've made you feel? try and get to the bottom of it and explain you are very much excited about getting married and having LO but that night in particular it was important to pack!
Now you'd love their input into planning the wedding!?
Think a wedding is now out of the question, tried to talk to them on the Sunday but nothing got through and without their help we can't afford it anyway at the moment.
Writing a letter is a great idea, think I'll leave it a bit longer though as I need to calm down before I say anything really... My Mum has always been a bit of an bully to me when she doesn't get her way, need to let her know I'm not taking it anymore without alienating her more.
In all honesty, you two should decided when you want to tie the knot. Not them. It should be good enough that you guys are thinking about it. Marriage is no more then a piece of paper especially if you are not religious. If you and your OH are committed to each other emotionally than marriage should only be if you want to and not because you have to.
it seems like a hard situation though. I know how it can be trying to please the family, but she shouldn't be like this to you while you are so emotional and fragile. First trimester is a great deal of emotions and the baby is taking a great deal from you still. You should be pampered-- not dealing with emotional melodrama.
Maybe i'm being emotional myself.
are you married? i used to say the same thing until i was married. marriage is a serious commitment, but then so is having a baby (at least the way i was raised).
she may be more concerned about the image of it all, then actually thinking about what she's asking you to do. take some time away, let everything calm down. it may take a month or two even. my mother said some nasty things the last time i was pregnant (basically making it seem like it would be better if i terminated) and so i'm scared crapless to tell my parents this time. but i'm sure just like your mom, she will come around when the little bundle of sweet is in her arms. you never stop being a mom, no matter how old your kids are and i'm sure that's all this is.
I am married, and I will always tell the truth as to why I did get married. Because my husband was joining the Military and the benefits are too good to pass up but you have to be married.
Marriage (in my complete opinion) is a little overrated these days. Divorce is so huge these days, it seems as if marriage is a mockery of itself.
Marriage was never going to change my commitment to my husband. I was his whole heartedly.
I do like what you said about taking time away from the situation. That seems to be the best idea.
