I sometimes have a look in there these days just to see what people are rowing about
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mostly its the same old stuff it seems!
I did enjoy being in there more when LO was tiny and I did learn a lot, not only about development but different methods of doing things, and I think it was from reading lots of that that I decided how I 'didn't' want to do things if that makes sense. Even then though I dont remember starting a huge number of threads in there, I expect there were more in here / BF
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There does look to be a bit of a 'backlash' (not sure if thats a right word) from 'non AP' mummies - dont know what else to call it, I don't like Mainstream actually as I feel like AP/NP should NOT be in the minority and mainstream sounds like we're wierd or something! - But maybe thats part of the point, if we go in there and say how we do things some people feel they have to justify how right they are by telling us how wrong/high and mighty etc we are.
Lightworker I scanned through that thread last night (after it got locked) and I kinda knew what you meant and agreed with your first post but could see how much everyone who is "mainstream" (for want of a better word) would jump on the defensive. So many people in BC are so overly defensive and almost like they are looking for things to jump on when anyone says they do things differently, it makes me wonder how uncertain they must feel about their own parenting that they feel the need to justify it by putting other styles like AP/NP down or saying we are "on our high horses" or whatever, whatever the hell that might mean...
I gotta say - and I really dont mean this to offend anyone - but since going back to work I can look at stuff in there and really dont give a toss, since I have no brain-space (or time to devote to online bickering with strangers who wont budge on their views anyway) - but I remember when I was off work I would really get concerned about it all and get involved. If you are at home (and I know SAHMS are busy) with a new baby maybe you have less other stuff to concern yourself with so it becomes more important to get your views across and try to change people's minds and get involved in the arguments etc.
Sorry, I know lots in here are SAHMs and probably dont feel like that, I know what I mean in my own head
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