I feel like I'm having a girl and in my dreams its a girl, but because of that I bet it ends up being a boy! We're definately finding out at the 20 wk scan, but thats on April Fools day morning so hoping the sonographer doesn't think its funny to fib!
Csunshine - Good luck for tomorrow. A difficult day, but it will be such a relief to pass this stage and you'll be fine x
Mrs P - I know what you mean about visiting. This will be my first child but I am worried about it already. DH and I live a couple of hours away from family and I'm dreading people staying at my house when I'm in hospital and being there when I come home!
I feel like this is selfish as they will have made the effort to be there, but I don't think I'll cope with my 2 yr old neice running around and my BIL is too pushy to take no for an answer. Also, he has just given up his job (but still refuses to look after their daughter, who goes to nursary when my sisyer is working) and is now planning to go on long term benefits, so theres no telling how long he'd stay. He was trying to get us to go on holday with them 2 weeks after my due date as he thought "it would be a nice break for you and your sister could help with the baby"... I don't think so! What he actually means is "I don't want to pay for our holiday so you can, and I'll be able to dump my daughter on you and go out".
Ok you get the picture, rant over (but I'm still worried). Should also say that I love my sister and neice! I just want some space after the birth.
Is this a normal reaction? x