Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[MajorBee]

Oh Jayne, sorry hn, meant to say poo to bad dreams. Hope it's not AF x

 

[Newbie32]

Morning girls!! Such a great sleep, and a sleep in for me which is unusual!!!

Hope everyone has a fab day, I forgot to temp this morning, struggling to get back into the cycle of remembering to do it! Cbfm gone to high already....dunno if that means will be early o again, we shall see this week!

Jayney I hope the witch stays away hun xx

Major sounds like you had a lovely evening!

Abs looking forward to seeing your chart today....

Hi squeegs xx

And hi to everyone else, need to get the iPad out cos it's hard to catch up on my phone!!!!

Xx

 

[Lisasmith]

Can't believe anyone would say that about an adopted child. Really, what horrible things to say! It's just rubbish.

I can believe ppl say horrible stuff about BF because I have experienced it. I had someone tell me I didn't try hard enough when my milk failed when H was 4 1/2 months old. I was an absolute mess about it already and I think it was pure exhaustion that did it - I stupidly bought a new house before selling the old one right at the end of my pregnancy and had to renovate the old one to sell it. So I was working 7 days a week about 10 hours a day on renovations - I reckon I'd get through The Block (tv show) with my hands tied behind my back after that. Also add in the stress of paying 2 mortgages while on unpaid maternity leave, and umpteen specialist appointments for my baby. Now I see it's no wonder my milk chucked it in, something had to give! So this cow told me it was because I didn't try hard enough. Up her bum. I ended up losing a whole bunch of friends over it - an entire mums group. Women can be unbearably cruel.

MajorBee I have has my. Hold do the same thing! I felt terrible when I realised I was leaving him to self settle in a pile of poo, poor little lamb chop.

Yay - the weekend is here

That's freaking disgusting!!! God people piss me off. You did your best, fuck what they think. Ugh!! I lost friends because I Breastfed for too long.. Huh?
I was also kicked out of a mothers group when my oldest was diagnosed with autism because they didn't want to expose their children to "those kinds of things"

 

[Lisasmith]

After reading all that I have come to the conclusion that people suck.

Vaginal birth = real woman? Huh... I tip my hat to those who have a section that is rough.

Abs I'm sorry about your mum being a douche like that. My mum is the same

Jayney love, sorry about your dream x

Kiwi I hope today's scan is better. We love you

Umm to everyone

 

[Newbie32]

Smithy that is terrible! God what is wrong with some people!!!!!

 

[number2woohoo]

Holy shit smithy that is so f'd!!!!! Sorry that some nasty people did that to you love xo

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

What is wrong with people today?!

Amanda & smithy, that is disgusting!

Jayney hope you're ok and the dream means something for your temps rising

Nana have a great day glad you got a sleep in! Hope the big ov happens! Be sure to bs after peak to be certain!

As for me, I'm off to get my bits waxed. Lol have a good day everyone! Xxx

 

[Newbie32]

Lol squeegs, enjoy!!!!!! X

 

[Lisasmith]

Yeah people are awful! I went to ante natal with all these girls and through my 2nd pregnancy too. The kicker was they said I could still bring my daughter but not my son.. How about eff off? I've never really made any local friends after that. I have a couple but it kinda putt me off

 

[Lisasmith]

Have fun squeegs

 

[Newbie32]

I don't blame you smithy, that's disgusting behaviour!!! Wish you lived closer to me!!!!!

 

[Abby27]

Morning ladies! thanks for all the great advice, you are all quite wise! i think im a little better today. xo

Smithy, Maddy and Abada and Squeegs....wow women can just be super cruel to each other!!! how awful.
ive seen a range of people BF and not, natural birth or C-section...doesnt make you any less of a woman, and for that matter neither does never having a baby. Woman can be very competetive on these topics, and quite cruel. I have a very close friend who has two kids now and she is really enjoying being a mother, and she made some comment one day that you will never know yourself till you are a mother....WELL shit, i guess i will never know myself at this rate. she didnt mean to be cruel, or mean, it was just a little thoughtless.
i could easily say back, until you have raised a dog from a puppy you will never know patience! any way...
sorry that turned into a rant.

What are people getting up to today? i was going to do some gardening stuff....get ready to put up that pool but it looks close to rain! so might not.

Edit: Jayne ive had temp dreams to! crazy shit! and 36.6 is still high! it is for me any way

 

[Newbie32]

Glad you're feeling a bit better abs!!! Did you test this morning? X

 

[number2woohoo]

We're on our way to swimming, have a busy weekend ahead with arvo tea with my oldies, a grups party tonight, and a fancy dress kids party tomorrow. Yikes. Plus a few other things I want to get done - some shopping and a little computer project I have in mind.

 

[Abby27]

yeah i tested....and nothing exciting or interesting to report. I have a little chin pimple to....which doesnt bode well!

 

[Newbie32]

Hang in there abs!!!! I'm holding onto hope for you hun xx

Sounds like a busy weekend Amanda, fancy dress sounds fun!!

 

[Abby27]

thanks Nana! Well im now googling if my pms pimple could be preg related instead. so....trying to hold out hope. but i dont think so.

 

[cossime]

Morning girls!!! Firstly,wtf is wrong with people??!!??!!??!! Makes me so fkn mad that people can be so ignorant and just plain old stupid!! Smithy and Amanda, I wish I had girls like you in my mothers group! Too many fake bitches wanting to win some kind of fkn prize on how to raise kids correctly-news flash: grow the fk up! Makes me sooooo mad!

Ok feel better now...abs looks like you're going to have to wait it out a little longer!!
Major, sounded like a nice night!
Squeegs, getting de-bushed is always fun
Lainey and smithy, and sign of ms pissing off?
Rosie and lisafr, how's the bumps coming along?
Kiwi sending you big cyber darling
Nana wow you have decided to temp again! I must have missed that!!!
Missie, Lucy and amber hope all your bubs are doing well have we got the gender poll up and running?
Angel, hope the report writing is coming to an end
Jayney AF isn't here yet so dont give up hope just yet!
Omg ginny I was wetting myself at the "accidental mistakes" re. Texting!!! Too funny
Maddy hope Monday comes around quickly so you can see what the results are also, I second what very one else said re. Biological versus adopted children. Again there are some stupid fkn out there!!! Grrrrrrrrr

Afm....girls I'm dying here speaking of weird dreams, I dreamt I poas and positive. Now all I feel us like af is knocking on my doorstep and every time I go to the loo, I expect to see her!!!! I couldn't use fmu today as I pee'd twice in the night (which is very unusual for me) so now I don't want to test for fear of a big fat negative!!!! I still can't sleep probably averaging about 3 hours a night; still cramping too!!! Technically, 14DPO is today. Tomorrow I will be one day late so I am going to TRY wait until Monday morning if I don't get AF by then...now I am working myself up to crash and burn...miserably...sigh...

Have a wonderful weekend girls we are off to Georgetown Penang today. Spending the last 3 nights here in the shopping town (so may purchase some more tests lol!)

Apologies if I missed anyone on my catch up xx

 

[number2woohoo]

Cossi I totally dreamed I was pregnant the night before my BFP. It's surely a sign!

The fancy dress party is a pirate party. So I got H a huge sword.

 

[Abby27]

i think Squeegs dreamt she was pregnant before the BFP to!?
Pirate party sounds great! looking forward to pics of H dressed up!