Ok now Toby is almost 3 months
i am revisiting this thread to say what we have found useful in these early days and weeks
Changing station (as previously mentioned)
More bibs and muslin squares than you can possibly think you could need!
Baby Nose Clear Nasal Aspirator (you control the suction, it's much much better than the bulb style aspirators and a god-send if your LO gets a cold as if their noses are really blocked they'll find it hard to feed)
Clearly Herbal Natural Bamboo Baby Wipes, pricier than some other wipes but very thick and soft and kind to baby bottoms
Cherry teat dummies (Toby hated the tommy tippee CTN orthodontic ones we bought
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Avent Microwave steriliser (I'm breastfeeding but it was cheap from mothercare and we needed one for the dummies and occasional bottle of EBM) It's really straightforward to use and fits loads in, just one of those products that does what it says on the tin without any bells or whistles!
Arm's Reach Co Sleeper cot, Ok ok i admit we're not using this at the minute (we're actually co-sleeping as in bed sharing right now) but Toby was in it for the first 3 weeks and it was fantastic having him right there next to me, and i would highly recommend it for breastfeeding mums. Also, although i didn't have one, i can imagine it would be really handy if you've had a c-section too as you don't have to leave the bed at all, it has pockets all round the side to store nappies, wipes, breastpads, baby clothes etc
Vibrating bouncer chair, we didn't actually BUY this, it was a hand-me-down but it's great! Toby likes to sit in while i sort washing etc!
That's all i can think of for now. Hope that helps someone!