I know hon
I am working tomorrow and monday 7.30am-2.00pm but then I am off for 3days and have holidays here and there over next few weeks so should lighten the load so to speak!
I had an argument with my mum earlier too
My cousin has a 8yr old son (who is my godson!) she is currently in a relationship and has been with this guy for a few years but last night she decides to go to have dinner at this guys house who she works with and who also really likes her! Apparently her OH was ok with this
but then today she tells her OH she needs a break from him
I mean they just got a place together and set up home beginning of this year with her son as well! My cousins mum (my aunty) is currently in hospital recovering from an operation and my mum is visiting this afternoon when my cousin walks in in tears saying they are splitting up and she has no-one to look after her son whilst she sorts everything out! Well my mum offered to have him over-night but then decided to ring me and ask us if we can have him instead! I have absolutely no-where for him to sleep except the sofa (we only have a two-bed house) and I am getting up for work at 5.45am in the morning so I told her that b/c I was working I couldnt have him. She tried putting me on a guilt trip by saying `oh well I will have to have him then` I was like `yeah you did offer` So she said `well I just thought he could share with DS` I was like `no its not possible b/c I am working, if I wasnt then I would have him` She was upsetting me so I hung up!
arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I mean my cousin needs to stand up and except responsibility.....she had her son at 16yrs old her choice and she is always palming him off....the poor boy! I would have def had him but I am working this weekend and my mum knows I am pregnant and really tired at the minute and could really do without the crap....but oh no! Well we havent spoken since I hung up!!!!!! I am fed up of going along with everyone else just to please other people......everyone has hard times she should learn to bloody deal with it!
Sorry rant over!