Sorry you gals are having so much trouble. nik, maybe you should wait till daylight to talk to him if he's a bit drunk when he gets home so maybe he will listen and remember. just go to bed and ignore his ass. until recently I was the drinker and go outter in the relationship. hehe, but not anymore. even then I only went out every month or every other month for a big drink and drink. I know I'm not responsible and not good at cutting myself off when I do go out so dh would drop me off so I'd either have to call him or a cab. And I always checked in with him via texts with updates. once I accidentally texted his mom that she was the sexiest thing ever instead of him. Lol. And it was Easter weekend when all the family was at her house, and my family (parents, siblings and even my uncle and cousin were there) stopped by for dessert and coffee after their other easter dinners that she whipped out her phone to ask about the text. Lol, they all had a good hoot about it while I turned beat red.
but, I was more of the partier/guy role in the relationship, and if dh tried to talk to me that night I would blow up. once he figured out to wait, sometimes a few days, I was more reasonable and understanding how he worried and I was being unfair that we got it all sorted out. gl to you, and hopefully he realizes it's not fair to you, especially prego with recent scares.
my tummy kills!
