BD'ing my butt off--whose in it for November??

[bazzb]

No word
I Juudt want to be normal and have a regular friggin cycle is that too much to ask for!

 

[bazzb]

Sorry you e having a bad day also naiomi xoxo

 

[bazzb]

My original due date is approaching its April 4th I'm not sure how I will cope to be honest
I could just lock myself alone in my room today I feel so angry

 

[bazzb]

Ok so I just called the dr office
It will be another week or two before I even find out when my app is
I hate the health care system in Canada!

 

[Pray2bBlessed]

So sorry Naomi!

I surpassed my original due date by one month, then I got pg the following month. It was difficult, but it seemed easier than I thought it would be.

We have about 10inches of snow on our deck, there is probably more than that because our deck is partially covered. It stopped snowing for now, but it's supposed to start again in a few hours.

I'm thinking about getting a 4D ultrasound, I found a place that it is $85 for the basic package.

 

[gnomette]

Sounds like the lovely nhs over here xx thats awful that they said a week an now they are saying another up to two weeks x
Elliott's due date was in September an we didn't start trying til September so I knew that wasn't an option but its that it will be a year since loosing him an if I am completely honest I still remember it like it was yesterday an that awful cold feeling an empty an lost an numb an just looking at his tiny face an holding his hands an looking at his little feet an just thinking I want you to breath I want you to cry an the look on my husbands face looking at him an just feeling like I failed him an I failed our son an now I am still failing cause I'm still not bloody up duff its not much to ask I know I am so lucky to have the 2 I have I really do but I can't help but want more I love my children I would have s whole football team if my husband would let me but I know once we have another one its our last ok but his birthday is gonna be hard Lilly I always let off balloons an we always sit an cuddle my hubby all night x an as for any birthday there is always cake lol x maybe give that a go something just you an hubby x how's he going?

 

[gnomette]

Amanda the 4d scans are amazing well worth the money xc

 

[Pray2bBlessed]

Naomi, I can't even imagine going through that!

Bailey, I can't believe they are making you wait that long!

I can't decide when to get it done. I am anxious to find out the sex, and they say anytime after 18 weeks, but they also say the best facial images are at 25-30 weeks. But I don't know if I want to wait that long! Lol!

 

[bazzb]

that a good idea Naiomi... i may do the balloon thing... I dont know why I am so upset today I guess the waiting is killing me i guess

sorry for the rant!! thanks ladies

 

[gnomette]

Balloons an cake we are even silly enough to put candles on the cake x sounds silly x

 

[MommyNikki]

Naomi, I don't think any of that is silly, that's how you celebrate/remeber your baby and you have the Right to do so in any way you please. I'm sorry things have been so difficult..if you aren't already seeing a specialist, I would..maybe they could start you on some medicine to kickstart conception like they do for women with pcos. Even though it hasn't been as hard to make mine I believe that making it through this pregnancy will be enough for me to get my tubes tied. I don't want to be scared my whole pregnancy like I have been.

Bailey, I'm sorry your having a difficult time with your health care system. It seems like since we met you have always been waiting on something and that's not fair. You've been really strong, keep it up. I heard the other day that "greatness does not go on sale, you have to work hard and earn it" I think you girls are doing just that and your hardwork will lead you to greatness in the form of a rainbow.

Pray I would wait on the 4d till later cause its soo much cuter to get one when it looks like a baby versus a alien lol

 

[bazzb]

Thanks Nikki I hope u r right! Xoxoxo

 

[gnomette]

I am in the UK so it has to have been a year regardless off how long/short your cycles are an as I only have one tube an I already have children so getting any sort of help is like finding rocking horse s@#t
Nikki my husband is getting the snip his choice not mine x
Amanda I had a 4d done with my daughter at 26weeks an she was a madam I had to go back cause the 1st time she was in the oddest position an the woman couldn't get any decent pictures lol you can get some amazing deals we got a video an loads of pictures on a disc so we could print them off x

 

[Womble12]

Naomi and bailey, sorry you're both going through a hard time right now. Your patience will be rewarded. I think the balloons and cake sounds like a lovely idea.

Amanda, I've heard the 4d scans are amazing. As we're not finding out the sex we prob won't get on though

Me, I've got another scan tomrw to check the heart and nt measurement. Am nervous but looking forward to seeing lo again.

Is anyone else having to move house? We're in a one bed so its on the market and we're looking for a house, but as we live in London its just impossible to afford anything. I keep getting really depressed about it and crying alot. Can't be good for the baby I just don't wanna live in a horrible neighbourhood in a cold damp house. We have ok paid jobs and if we lived anywhere but London & south we'd have a great house, but we'll be lucky to get a shoe box here. Its so depressing & we're rapidly running out of time too. Sorry for the moan.xx

 

[MommyNikki]

Naomi, so he just is getting snipped? No more trying? How do you feel about that? He should at least wait on it

 

[gnomette]

He's not getting it done til after we have our rainbow sorry I should have been clearer x I haven't slept well at all the last few days x

 

[MommyNikki]

I'm exhausted as well.. My kids have been waking me up at night

 

[gnomette]

Sophie yay for scan tomorrow xx an seeing little one x
nikki Yeh my daughter keeps waking up at stupid times in the night complaining of pains in her legs my son was the same at her age an my dad said I did too x I think they know when we are tired lol x
its my wedding anniversary on Wednesday so I asked my husband what he wanted to do an he said he hadn't planned anything so I have asked my dad to have the kids next weekend an I am planning it myself bit annoyed if I am honest that he's not thought of doing anything mainly cause he forgot it was coming up but that's annoyed me too x so on top of my body giving me failed hope an missing my boy I now have to plan my own wedding anniversary really not happy an then I can't sleep cause I am pissed off

 

[MommyNikki]

Sounds like the story of my life, I'm always the one to have to plan something or pick where we eat out somewhere...hell I have to make the decision to go out to eat lol I am never surprised, I never get "hey let's go bowling tonight" lol if I did, I'd probably drop dead right there. It sucks. I brought that up the other night

 

[gnomette]

My husband's cousins are trying as we speak to arrange a night out on fb normally I do it but I haven't in a wile its quite funny to read we don't drink but they do a lot so I have been leaving it to my husband I am not getting involved lets see how they get on pmsl my husband is the same probably the least spontaneous person in the world it must be a man thing lol I will give him time see if he can pull something out of the bag lol