Bellys to Bumps

[xMissxZoiex]

How do you not get discouraged I'm in my 2nd month of trying. Af is due soon and I have cramps they feel like at so i doubt I will get my BFP this month..and I guess I'm kinda sad my sister has 2 kids who she pays no attention to and then she just had a miscarriage my thing is if you d t pay attention tithe kids you ave why would you be so careless to get pregnant again. I mean I'm sad that she had a mc but makes mwonder all I want is one baby when is it my turn

I hope you can find away to not feel discouraged when its a BFN. Ive been TTC for 4 and a half years nearly and i have never found away of dealing with the negative emotions, i just stay in bed and cry. It is hard when other people dont appreciate there children my brother gives his baby to any tom dick or harry that will have her. It makes the pain of BFNs that little bit worse. x

 

[BBWttc29]

How do you not get discouraged I'm in my 2nd month of trying. Af is due soon and I have cramps they feel like at so i doubt I will get my BFP this month..and I guess I'm kinda sad my sister has 2 kids who she pays no attention to and then she just had a miscarriage my thing is if you d t pay attention tithe kids you ave why would you be so careless to get pregnant again. I mean I'm sad that she had a mc but makes mwonder all I want is one baby when is it my turn

I hope you can find away to not feel discouraged when its a BFN. Ive been TTC for 4 and a half years nearly and i have never found away of dealing with the negative emotions, i just stay in bed and cry. It is hard when other people dont appreciate there children my brother gives his baby to any tom dick or harry that will have her. It makes the pain of BFNs that little bit worse. x

Thank you. That's how my sister is. And it makes me sad for my nephews I'm also hoping soon I'll get my BFP

 

[Doodlebug.]

I know how you feel girls

 

[EmmyReece]

Well done on the loss Cran, that's brilliant

I agree with Cran, all we can do is just plod on and keep trying. I tried giving up on ttc and I always end up coming back because in my heart of hearts, I know how much I want to be a mummy, and for now while I'm losing the weight all I can do is try

 

[cranberry987]

i am SO hungry. eating about 3 times as much as normal and still hungry. i rly feel like something is wrong here.... its not normal. blood sugar is fine, otherwise feel fine, i think i might go to the drs if it continues. havent been able to stick to sw this week but the scales say ive lost weight. doesnt feel right....

 

[EmmyReece]

How much protein do you eat cran? Would it be worth trying to bump that up as I know a lot of people who stick to red days because carbs don't keep them as full for as long?

I've been having trouble getting back on plan 100%, I don't know why but my will power has completely gone out of the window. I'm going to try a fresh start when we get back from turkey (though am trying to follow sw as best as I can at the moment) and see how that goes. I'm just so fed up of saying that I'm trying to get back on plan, then my will power disappears and I'm back at square one. And in my own mind I'm not trying hard enough

 

[cranberry987]

I think I eat enough protein. Thing is I should have been full for a while at least, maybe just hungry quicker even if I was eating eg sweets I should have been ok for a few minutes at least! Having a fatty meal worked. Scales say 2 on this week as I ran out of Sw food half way through the week tried to be good and eat like tinned fruit etc

 

[EmmyReece]

Glad having a fatty meal worked it might just be a case of bringing in more fatty stuff, will keep everything crossed that's the case. 2lbs on isn't too bad if you haven't been on plan properly, at least you've tried to follow it as much as you possibly can by eating tinned fruits etc. And I'm sure if it's 2lbs on on monday that it won't be with you for long once you get back on plan

 

[WhisperOfHope]

Ive been bad and given up with the clomid etc what ever weight i lost i putback on so just TRYING to cut callories and eat healthy now

 

[cranberry987]

It's just so hard when on clomid tho. Are you still taking it?

 

[WhisperOfHope]

It's just so hard when on clomid tho. Are you still taking it?

no just waiting on af now at 14 dpo next clomid cycle will be mid july depeniding on howlong next cycle decideds to be, but i just seem to pile the weight on even when eating healthy

 

[EmmyReece]

I'm going off plan today, not stupidly over the top, but we have hardly anything in because we're off on wednesday night so didn't see the point in doing a shop.

Hopefully when we get back I can get going again on sw and really focus like I did at the beginning, fingers crossed there isn't too much damage

 

[xMissxZoiex]

Hey ladies,

Last week i put 2lbs on But ive almost dropped a dress size :S Maybe its muscle but i need to get my BMI down for the IVF its so frustrating :/

 

[Lisa84]

Grrr the BmI scale is sooo outdated its unbelieveable!! You just need to take comfort from the fact that you are gaining muscle with will eventually help burn fat quicker xxx

 

[WhisperOfHope]

i got my bfp yesterday so even the little bit i managed to loose must of done something positive towards it

 

[Lisa84]

Congratulations Whisper xxx

 

[WhisperOfHope]

Congratulations Whisper xxx

thank you just got it confirmed with bloods im so exited yet so nervouse

 

[4magpies]

Hey girls. I'm joining the gym tonight.

In the two week wait at the moment.

AF is due on my birthday. That'll be fun. *rolls eyes*

x

 

[EmmyReece]

Keeping everything crossed for you Becca

Af is due to land a week tomorrow, halfway through our holiday to turkey, I'm dreading it

 

[Traskey]

Becca!!!!!! How lovely to see you Fingers crossed for the 2WW, nobody wants the on their birthday!

Whisper, congratulations on your bfp.

Cran, are you still starving hungry or has it eased?

Em, have a lovely holiday. See you when you get back!