Bellys to Bumps

[Traskey]

OMG, nice that they are gardening for you but you'd think they'd call first!!!!

No wonder you were bummed. I'd be too. Not about the gardening because I hate it but the fact that they interrupted you when you were in the mood. Besides, they should let you choose your own plants.

Poor you!!!!

 

[lovie]

oh how anoying that they interupted you!! id be tempted to pretend i wasnt in, grrr... x

 

[cranberry987]

we live ages away from parents atm but when we move back next year theyre not coming over without calling or im literally not opening the door. these parents need boundaries. stay out of my room mom!

 

[zowiey]

It frustrates me sooo much! My mum rings every time to see if it's ok to come round, the in laws never do! I didn't help with the gardening, stayed in side the whole time!

And then to add insult to injury, fil started asking about our treatment, as hubby tells them nothing. So I explained what we would be having and hopefully when, when he piped up And said "well for some people it doesn't work on the 1st, 2nd, 3rd or even 4th go!" what the hell???? Thanks for that, I wasn't actually aware that there is a very real possibility that we may never have our own child. Cheers!

And then he wanted to know if we could go on holiday in sept, with them bil, sil & nephew. Erm, NO! We (hopefully) will be starting treatment then, and if it works, I am not flying only being a few weeks pg, and if it doesn't, I cannot think of anything I'd rather do less, than spend a fortnight with them, and our 1 year old nephew!

Rant over! Sorry!

 

[lovie]

i hope you said to them well for lots of people it happens 1st time, so we are keeping our fingers crossed! the holiday sounds like an awfull plan, best to side step that one x

 

[twinkle1975]

It frustrates me sooo much! My mum rings every time to see if it's ok to come round, the in laws never do! I didn't help with the gardening, stayed in side the whole time!

And then to add insult to injury, fil started asking about our treatment, as hubby tells them nothing. So I explained what we would be having and hopefully when, when he piped up And said "well for some people it doesn't work on the 1st, 2nd, 3rd or even 4th go!" what the hell???? Thanks for that, I wasn't actually aware that there is a very real possibility that we may never have our own child. Cheers!

And then he wanted to know if we could go on holiday in sept, with them bil, sil & nephew. Erm, NO! We (hopefully) will be starting treatment then, and if it works, I am not flying only being a few weeks pg, and if it doesn't, I cannot think of anything I'd rather do less, than spend a fortnight with them, and our 1 year old nephew!

Rant over! Sorry!

Pah - bloody inlaws!! I;d have been so tempted to say something like 'Oh its a good job you weren't 5 minutes later or you'd have caught us in flagrante in the garden' Maybe that would make them ring in future??

 

[twinkle1975]

I'm cross with myself today - I've been so good about not even thinking about the possibility of getting pregnant or being pregnant & then last night I had to get up 4 times to go to the loo and I felt really sick in the car earlier - now I know that both of those things have rational explanations (DH is trying to get me drink more and I was running late for lunch) but a teeny bit of the back of my mind couldn't help having a little jolt of hope, even though I'm only on CD18. I just need a slap (Please dont say 'but you could be' as I know I'm not)

 

[cranberry987]

I was convinced I was preg one cycle even tho we didnt have sex at all. Us women are just crazy, learn to accept it and things will go a lot smoother

 

[zowiey]

Twinkle, but you have to keep the faith, well that's what I'm telling myself anyway! We're not crazy just eternally hopefull!

xxxx

 

[EmmyReece]

Twinkle, but you have to keep the faith, well that's what I'm telling myself anyway! We're not crazy just eternally hopefull!

xxxx

couldn't have said it better myself

Ladies I'm having a really bad food day, me and Chris aren't talking, last night he slept in the spare room and tonight and tomorrow he's on night duty so that's 3 nights in a row in separate beds And me being the idiot I am have just gone mad with food, have ate loads of cereal, a bag of crisps, some pringles

 

[cranberry987]

Id stop now and forget about the past. You cant change what youve eaten just make a decision to follow the diet starting now.

 

[zowiey]

Aww, Emmy Don't beat yourself up, it will only make you feel worse, and if you're anything like me, will lead you to eat more. Is there no way you can talk to chris? Try to resolve things? Tomorrow is a new day diet day, so draw a line under today and forget it
xxx

 

[EmmyReece]

He's not in the mood for talking so there isn't much hope of sorting things out tonight. Am really tempted to just go home, but mum needs me here tomorrow so got to wait it out

 

[twinkle1975]

Yep - as Cran says (she's a wise woman) just say what's done is done & move on - don't say well I've made as mess, I might as well eat whatever I want (as I tend to do) as it only means more to lose afterwards. Can you find something else to treat yourself with, a bath, a girly film or something???

 

[EmmyReece]

I've nipped home to fetch dvds - Gnomeo and Juliet and Tangled. Going to have a chunk of watermelon and settle down to watch them when I get back to mums

 

[lovie]

twinkle im in a simalar situation, im on cd 25 and i have cramps and im persuading myself they are "different" to every other month for the last 15 years... they are exactly the same im being dilusional.

emmy films and water melon sound like a great idea! dieting is the bigger picture, no-ones can stick to a diet 100% every single day, it's about how you cope with the slip up days

xxx

 

[twinkle1975]

I've nipped home to fetch dvds - Gnomeo and Juliet and Tangled. Going to have a chunk of watermelon and settle down to watch them when I get back to mums

Good plan - I'd like to see both of those!

 

[twinkle1975]

twinkle im in a simalar situation, im on cd 25 and i have cramps and im persuading myself they are "different" to every other month for the last 15 years... they are exactly the same im being dilusional.

emmy films and water melon sound like a great idea! dieting is the bigger picture, no-ones can stick to a diet 100% every single day, it's about how you cope with the slip up days

xxx

Glad its not just me that's a little bit crazy!!

 

[EmmyReece]

I've nipped home to fetch dvds - Gnomeo and Juliet and Tangled. Going to have a chunk of watermelon and settle down to watch them when I get back to mums

Good plan - I'd like to see both of those!

They're both fab hun I'd defo recommend them

 

[keepsmiling]

well ladies weigh in day another 5lb off this week!!