i'm thinking there are no rules on snacks - all babies are different and all that. i have been wondering whether to give hayden a mid-morning snack, as he is often not that interested in a bottle then, but seems to want something.
we still give milk before breakfast, but to be honest i don't leave that much of a gap as he is really tired and wanting to go back to bed shortly after his milk. still manages to eat plenty, though. did try breakfast first once, as he had been losing interest in his morning milk and taking less, but it didn't go well. it was quite early on, though.
not really a right or wrong answer to either question, i don't think, but would be interested in what others do / have done.
hayden has a cold at the minute, but it doesn't seem to have affected his apetite! today he had:
b - porridge fingers with strawberry jam, mango, some of hubby's banana
l - pasta with grilled yellow peppers & broccoli, with philadelphia mixed in (the broccoli was a bit overcooked, but that meant that when i stirred in the philly it broke up, making a kind of cheese and broccoli sauce

), 2 apricots
t - roast chicken, yorkshire pudding, mashed potato, carrots, broccoli, homemade apple sauce, a milk and vanilla cookie and a peach and apricot melba pudding