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blutea
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I wondered if you can help - I have a child who is now 3 years and 4 months old. Baby should be here in another 2 weeks time. I breastfed my first for 26 months and she has not forgotten and says that she wants to breastfeed with the baby. Is this likely to cause trouble? I am not terribly keen on getting that started again with her as she is over 3 now - if she does try it is she likely to want to carry on - should I totally prevent her from trying at all or should I allow her to try once if she asks and hope she thinks it doesn't taste nice?
The first thing you need to decide is if you do or if you don't want her to breastfeed again. If you are willing and she is interested I would say go for it! But, if you're hesitant to let her breastfeed again that may cause you to resent her if she does start up again. I can tell you that from speaking with other mothers who tandem nurse that it really helped the toddler bond with the newborn and it cuts down on sibling rivalry. My son will be three when our new baby is born and I suspect he will continue to breastfeeding for a while longer, at least another year. It is completely normal and natural to breastfeed a toddler if that is what is holding you back. It's entirely up to you, though...
One other thing I wanted to add is that allowing your toddler to breastfeeding again would help to relieve your engorgement, especially when your milk comes in. That's one aspect I look forward to. I had so much engorgement and pain when my milk came in last time and it's nice to know my son will be able to help with that. LOL