Sounds horrible, Melly.
I'm getting tired of all this rain. I can put up with the wind, but the rain is driving me mad. My garden is just like mud now, hardly any grass left. The dogs keep bring mud in - my back door is in my dining room - so the floor is covered in mud. Urgh.
Well, I spent the morning looking at fertility clinics in Denmark, as they have anonymous donations there, which is what I want. I had been planning to go to somewhere in Aarhus, Denmark, where you can buy the sperm yourself and self inseminate. I just have this image of going in to their office and buying it like you would buy anything in a supermarket, though I very much doubt that is how it works! They will ship to the UK, but, after reading up on it, there were questions about the legality of importing it on another forum, especially with it being non-anonymous, so I had been planning (which I was planning anyway) to go there myself and get it and do it all in Denmark. But, I cannot find any direct flights, and I would have to go via Copenhagen, and then either fly over to Aarhus, get a train or drive, which all either seem like very long or very expensive options. They cost about the same, though, as getting the sperm imported. If going there was the only option, though, I was willing to do it. However, I have found a couple of clinics in Copenhagen itself where you can go. I don't think you can self inseminate from them, but they do IUI (and even IVF), and, with my really dodgy cycle, I am thinking this would be better. It doesn't cost too much, either, not a huge amount more than all the extra travel over to Aarhus, anyway. But, I need to book a consultation with them, which looks like it can be done over the phone, which I think I will look in to booking in early spring. Getting exciting and scary now!