On another note, we seem to be struggling a bit again with the feeding.
As you know S has started to fuss a bit at the breast. He drinks for a few minutes (maybe 5 max, probably less) and then starts pushing the nipple out with his tongue. I wind him inbetween, but he doesn't go back on the breast again after, maybe only for 2-3 more sucks.
Sometimes (mainly in the evening) I have to give him a bottle of EBM as he just refuses the breast. When I give him a bottle of EBM, he drinks it with only little fussing. It takes him about 10 minutes to empty a 140ml bottle. When I feed him during the night, he seems to feed easier and with less resistance on the breast (approx 10 minutes).
I have been thinking about the 12 week growth spurt or that he might be entering the distractable phase as he keeps looking around. It has probably been a week or two now where he fusses that much.
Also, when we went to a class yesterday, there was a baby that was getting unsettled and needed a feed. She was BF'ed without any problem. I usually struggle to get him to latch on or even pay an interest in the boob when he is like this. He will even fight the bottle of EBM for a short time in that state, but will eventually take it, whereas with the boob, he just refuses point blank. The only time he easily latches on and drinks is at night and when he has just woken up.
Any suggestions on how we can make daytime feeds easier?