Hello girls
Better late than never...Layne is now over 3 weeks old! Some of you may have seen on 3rd tri. I'm only just getting on again now for 5 mins to update a few friends and check the forums as he's asleep and my girls aren't home from their dad's yet.
He was born April 20th at 6.02am after a pretty fast labour. Things kicked off late evening, I got to hospital around 1am-ish (I think...should check my birth story lol) and after being pretty terrified due to how busy it was (8 labouring ladies, one midwife between the lot of us). OH and I were left to our own devices in the admissions room for a good 3 hours before an auxiliary walked in and saw me bent over the bed howling; she got on the phone and demanded a midwife come get me. My memory of the whole thing is pretty hazy as my contractions were pretty ferocious and I was chugging on the gas and air for all I was worth, lol. I remember finally being taken to delivery around 5am and the midwife there immediately saying she thought I was close to delivering going by the noises I was making (glamourous, lol!). She checked me a little while later and said I was almost fully dilated - I'd been checked an hour or so before and was only 4cm at the time, so I went very quickly indeed! She offered to pop my waters to help me finish dilating, but I asked her to let things take their natural course. That was at about 5.50am; 5 mins later, I delivered the bag of waters (oh my God the relief from that was amazing, they'd caused me some serious pressure) and shortly afterwards, Layne followed in just one push
He was just under 6lbs - teeny tiny - so I'm not surprised it was pretty easy!
OH cried his eyes out from the moment he saw Layne's head crowning - he has a full, thick head of dark hair, it was all the midwife could talk about, lol. His delivery was actually *easier* than the bag of waters, weirdly! I just remember him sliding out and then me and OH crying and laughing while the midwife just gawped at his hair.
I did the whole thing naturally with just gas and air seeing me through the contractions; I had absolutely nothing from the moment I started pushing. No grazes, no tears, and Layne slept right through on his first night (can't say the same for since then, lol!). I'm so proud of myself as with my three kids, I went from emergency c-section, to a vbac with ventouse, epidural and episiotomy, to a completely natural delivery
I haven't succeeded with breastfeeding, but I'm ok with that. Layne's feeding brilliantly on bottles; he's actually a very hungry little boy and if I were breastfeeding I'd be at it for hours and hours on end meaning no time to take care of my disabled daughter, so it worked out for the best.
Little man's grizzling now so I'm gonna go, but I hope everything's good with everyone else - if I get anymore time I'll pop back on for a proper catch up on the thread!