Can someone private message me with some advice please

[Froggirl1985]

Yeah he just said he dont want to be in there when i give birth cause i think hes abit faint and that lol but he said hed go hospital and wait in waiting room until i have baby which i dont mind aslong as hes there .. but my mums coming in with me when i give birth as shell be alot ore supportive .. he wouldnt know what to expect or do to help me lol x

aww glad he's gonna be there (waiting room is as good as for me, I know the blood n nastiness cant be appealing, lol). He sounds like a really good bloke.

My OH wants to be in the room with me, and so does my 2 best mates, my mum, my sister, the aunt who's a midwife etc... I'm dead freaked out by that to be honest, I think I'll just have him and my mum in the end, or I'll be constantly shoutin at ppl to stay at the head end... lol. (its the poo, I'd be mortified it if happened, lol)

 

[Becyboo__x]

Yeah i dont really want any of my family,friends looking at me giving birth tbh lol.. not like there going to be staring down there etc but i would rather just have my mum there and OH if he was up for it lol but my family and whoever going to be at hospital still just not when i give birth as i think ill get stressed with everyone there staring at me and not helping lol.. and i was thinking about that but dont worry everyone says no-one really notices exsept midwife etc but it gets cleared up quite quickly lol.. i wanted a water birth but i think its too late to say i want one now my midwife literally didnt give me an opinion she just said hospital and wrote it down which probs isnt right i dont know though .. i dont know when you can decide and if it matters etc x