That's terrible, Smiler. I'm so sorry. I don't have any advice about your husband but I can tell you this ntnp preventing business is the FIRST time my Dh has ever actually said 'yes I would like another'. Even then it wasn't unprompted, it was me questioning what were we actually going to do (vasectomy or not). The previous 4 babies have been my decision with him
along for the ride.
I do think it's something that needs to be resolved though. The desire for a baby is all consuming but I don't know what the opposite feels like.
Aah bloody pnd ! It's almost a given we're all going to have it at some stage ! Have they given you any guidance as to how they made the decision and what needs to happen for it to change ?