Cd3, need some buddies please:) xx

[Desperado167]

Desperado... I so know how you feel as I am on the same boat with mine... just try not to take things personally for they are only deflecting their feelings of themselves on us. I personally stopped or limited my communications with my family for that reason...the criticism was just too much and I had enough of it...they got the hint and got better, and if and when we do talk if they start with the criticism I suddenly "have to go" or "another call came in" or whatever...I cut it real quick.

Try to enjoy her visit as she is still your mother BUT quickly switch subjects if the critical nonsense starts...either get up to do something (have to go pee) or mention your daughter and how pretty she is...bring her into the conversation etc...

Best of luck and HUGS!

Thanks,my mother came and she was fine,was actually a pleasant visit,thanks ladies for your support,xxxxxxxxx

 

[Indigo77]

Glad the visit was ok....As you know, I know how u feel...Luckily, I only have to see my mom once or twice a year...I find the only way of coping is to do as LL does...It's a shame we have to protect ourselves from our own mothers...

 

[Macwooly]

to all the ladies with mother issues

I used have real issues with my mum to the point we didn't talk for 2 years but thankfully things have improved in the last 2 years. I really don't know what the turning point was but I am thankful we have a pleasant relationship again.

We will never be as close as some ladies are with their mums but I no longer get physically sick before she visits or I visit her

 

[Desperado167]

Well,am finally ging to the docs about my rash,can't cope with the itch anymore ESP in this warm weather,am sure they will just give me cream and send me on my way,how are u all today,Good luck for those in the tww,and for all at the beginning of their cycle or approaching ovulation,

 

[Jax41]

Fleas?xXx

 

[Macwooly]

I wondered mange?

Glad you're going to the doctor and hope they can easy the itchiness

 

[Desperado167]

Yea u are both so funny,Won't be long till I find out,sorta dreading taking my trousers down,it's a new doc and he's hot

 

[LLbean]

HAHAHAHA Desperado...well maybe that is why I try to get Female doctors as much as possible, that way I have no problem LOL

 

[Desperado167]

HAHAHAHA Desperado...well maybe that is why I try to get Female doctors as much as possible, that way I have no problem LOL

Tried that one but they were all booked up Anyway it was fine ,have venous eczema ,very common in pregnancy and also an immune system rash due to my rheumatoid arthritis ,both won't go away until I am no longer preggo,got loads of cream as that's all I can take ,xxxxx

 

[LLbean]

Yikes! can't be fun...sorry to hear!

 

[Macwooly]

Good you know what is wrong but shame you will have it for another 7 months and 3 weeks! But didn't you say you had similar with your daughter? Did you ever get it with your sons? Oh maybe a girl

 

[Indigo77]

Despie...Hope the cream helps...

 

[Desperado167]

Yikes! can't be fun...sorry to hear!

It's fine really not to bad ,bedtime and the heat make it worse,as long as little beans ok I am not too worried,

 

[Desperado167]

Good you know what is wrong but shame you will have it for another 7 months and 3 weeks! But didn't you say you had similar with your daughter? Did you ever get it with your sons? Oh maybe a girl

Deffo a girl ,

 

[Indigo77]

I wonder about that? Did you definitely know with all your babies? Have you done the needle and thread test?

 

[Macwooly]

What's a needle and thread test?

 

[Indigo77]

It's an old wive's tale...
This an easy baby gender prediction method to try. Take a pin, needle, or wedding ring and attach it to a thread or strand of hair. Hold the dangling item over mom to be's belly while she is lying down. If the needle or wedding ring swings in a strong circular motion, you will be having a girl. If it moves in a to and fro motion like a pendulum, you will be having a boy.
An alternate version of this baby gender prediction method is to dangle the needle or wedding ring over the expectant mom's wrist instead of belly.

 

[Desperado167]

Have tried it and it does work but I usually do it at six months or so,I know this is a girl as i had an early positive pregnancy test and didn't ever have this wen I was carrying a boy,am happy with either as long as they are healthy,xxxxxxx

 

[Bubba3]

Yea u are both so funny,Won't be long till I find out,sorta dreading taking my trousers down,it's a new doc and he's hot

good luck with it all

 

[Bubba3]

Desperado , hope your not so scratchy itchy now ?
How's everyone else doing ?
So it seems I've just entered the dreaded ttw . I would feel better but have a niggling doubt as we messed up the day it seems I did o . O would be happier going into the ttw if I knew we'd done everything but I'm kind of negative already . Sorry not like me at all.
Good news is well be moving back to Oz which is where we really want to be so I have no problem with the keeping busy bit now. We have to be there in four weeks !!
Take care everyone