brownhairedmom
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I really dont get how letting him swear in his art work will be doing him any good or am i just missing the point completely!
i wouldnt let a child write down swear words then call it art!
And just because u let him write it down doesnt mean he isnt saying those words when ur not around!
and yeah i swore as a child but not around my mum or nan and i was always well behaved
It's his art! Who am I to tell him he can't draw this or that?! That's absurd! It's his creation and as long as he's not abusing that power, it's a way for him to get his feelings out without offending others. As an artist myself, it's a wonderful outlet to express your pent up emotions. He keeps them in his bedroom with his things- they are not displayed on the kitchen fridge! He often verbalizes to me that the children he goes to school with say horrid things on the playground but that he knows it's offensive to other peoples ears. Did you have a diary as a young girl? I did! And it was a safe place for me to get my emotions out without offending someone else. Perhaps it's a difference in culture ?
I don't think its a difference in culture. We have to remember that people in the artist "sub-culture" are way more able to express their emotions and everything by nature. Some people are just born that way, lucky things!! People who are writers, painters, musicians, etc etc etc, are more open to expression, no matter what it is! Also, I'm sure you aren't letting your little boy use racial slurs or horrible curse words.
And yes, there are things in a 9 year olds life that can make them "pissed off".