CIO Support Group

[taperjeangirl]

Daisy is screaming blue murder, has been since 7:30 This is so hard!

Hows Lily Serina? x

 

[Jkelmum]

Screaming and holding her breath why do i feel so bad

 

[taperjeangirl]

I odnt know but I do too! I keep telling myself it is for the best, we can't be settling them when they are 4-5 years old!

All this will make it easier when we Come to put them into big beds, and we will get our evenings back!!!

 

[Jkelmum]

ok so i left her 10 mins and by me going in and tryin to soothe without picking her up she got worse

 

[jackiea85]

Big I never wanted to do this but last night I gave in and he cried on and off for around an hour, I went in and checked him every 5-10 mins. Tonight I put him to bed and he cried for less than 5 minutes! I'm hoping he will stay asleep, I can't cope with him in our bed all the time any more, I can imagine him being in our bed forever if this doesn't work!

 

[taperjeangirl]

Yep Daisy is the same, I am trying the "leave her as long as is possible" approach! She just gets louder if I go near, I peek round the door to make sure she is ok though

 

[Jkelmum]

Shes screaming and caughing and going i bet she is one that is sick

 

[taperjeangirl]

Dont worry , just keep listening for her being sick.

Daisy is still screaming but stopping for a few seconds to listen to see if she can hear anyone!!
She is shouting Mummy

 

[Jkelmum]

I am going to go every 10 mins until 9pm then every 20 until 10pm then every 30 mins till she gives in ..my head hurts i feel guilty but kno it as to be done x

 

[taperjeangirl]

The guilt is awful, we must stick to it!

 

[taperjeangirl]

Daisy has gone quiet, I am off to check on her ............

 

[Jkelmum]

Fingers crossed x

 

[taperjeangirl]

She's asleep but still whimpering a bit God I feel bad I just want to lift her and give her a cuddle

 

[Jkelmum]

Lily is giving in I think ....shes sobbing quietly x

 

[Jkelmum]

night 1 took 35 mins ....I remember it taking hrs with my oldest ...lets just hope they both stay xx

 

[taperjeangirl]

Yay! Daisy took an hour, but it can only get better from here!
same time tomorrow?!

 

[Jkelmum]

Yes Lilys routine starts at 7 and bed by 8 x

 

[Jkelmum]

How did Daisy sleep ....Lily slept 12hrs which shocked me as she didnt drink much of her bottle x

 

[taperjeangirl]

Same! Daisy went to 8am, no interuptions, I am very happy! They must have tired themselves out with all that crying!
Lets hope they carry on with it

 

[Jkelmum]

Yeah it made it easier to ignore while chatting to you thank-you ...Cya tonight x