hulahoop09
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Oh thats pants!!! Men can be a pain in the ass and as much as they try to help dont!!! Lmao.
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Oh thats pants!!! Men can be a pain in the ass and as much as they try to help dont!!! Lmao.
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Aww hun thats pants. See w/ us its the ova way round OH's drive is much higher but since TTC I feel like I am using him. Lmao. Is the TTC not helping?
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Good Lord, no! If anything it's making it worse! Nothing happens organically any more - if I tell him when it's the best time (or my best guess at the best time lol) he either feels under pressure, or used, or tired, or stressed, or he's washing his hair....And if I just try and seduce him, he knows anyway because it's out of character. I can't win! The other morning, he actually pushed me off him. I'm just going to have to let him get his head round it in his own time - I refuse to argue about something that is supposed to be made out of love. It's just so effing annoying though!
Good Lord, no! If anything it's making it worse! Nothing happens organically any more - if I tell him when it's the best time (or my best guess at the best time lol) he either feels under pressure, or used, or tired, or stressed, or he's washing his hair....And if I just try and seduce him, he knows anyway because it's out of character. I can't win! The other morning, he actually pushed me off him. I'm just going to have to let him get his head round it in his own time - I refuse to argue about something that is supposed to be made out of love. It's just so effing annoying though!
my DH is similar. Not that he doesn't like BD, or find me attractive, cause he let's me know in lots of other ways. He just has a much lower drive, and no interest at night. He also doesn't want to know when I'm fertile cause of the pressure. So I told him that if he doesn't want to know, he has to agree to every other day, and if he doesn't make a move then I will so it happens and all bases are covered.
He used to ALWAYS turn me down to the point I stopped trying, but then realised it's cause his hormones drop at night, which is when I usually tried to come on to him.
Still haven't managed every other day yet, but it's a lot better than the 4-6 times a month for the first 2 years of our marriage!
my DH is similar. Not that he doesn't like BD, or find me attractive, cause he let's me know in lots of other ways. He just has a much lower drive, and no interest at night. He also doesn't want to know when I'm fertile cause of the pressure. So I told him that if he doesn't want to know, he has to agree to every other day, and if he doesn't make a move then I will so it happens and all bases are covered.
He used to ALWAYS turn me down to the point I stopped trying, but then realised it's cause his hormones drop at night, which is when I usually tried to come on to him.
Still haven't managed every other day yet, but it's a lot better than the 4-6 times a month for the first 2 years of our marriage!
You give me hope God bless you xxx
Egg White Cervical Mucus - it's what you get when you are in your fertile period xx