SBB, I know what you mean. I think I am leaning towards the slow. I am thinking that this is my last one and I kind of want the pregnancy part to last. Now, I am only saying this b/c my sickness part is over. If you had asked me about 8 weeks ago I would've said hurry it up! LOL Trust me ladies, the sickness does pass and soon you will all feel wonderfully preggers. On the other hand, I can't wait to meet this boy. He is so active and frisky. Also, since it's my first with my DH I can't wait to see the combination of us all in one little human. Hope that doesn't sound weird or creepy but I think you get what I mean..? Hahaha.