I should add it was her SECOND accidental pregnancy. The first one was a complete and utter shock for them and she was crying for days (she had only just turned 23), but now she is 27 (28 in June) so I think a little less shocked by the whole thing. Her hubby doesn't have a job and she has only just started up her own business (financial advice type stuff). They had to sell their house during the first pregnancy and are in and out of both sets of parents' houses. They currently have their own place, but will be a matter of time before they need to move back in, but my MIL (her mum) would never allow it because of the stress it caused! Honestly, we are older & wiser, have secure jobs that are well paid, nice family cars, mortgage on a family house with potential (and permission!) to extend and much much more. It's just not fair. I bet she wouldn't even realise there are drugs out there like clomid to help people get pregnant! Raaaargh!
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