^ yup what she said ... you're not until AF shows! And what do you do next?? KEEP TRYING. I never believed that crap when people said it, but just don't give up. Even when you're just sick of dealing with it, don't give up. Seriously. Never ever give up. My friend Naomi and her husband went through hell for 7.5 years, they finally decided to try ONE more IUI cycle and then they would stop trying. It was that last IUI cycle that got her pregnant. She now has a beautiful, happy, healthy 6 month old. She almost gave up but kept saying, "one more IUI........" so just keep holding on and keep trying.
What is everything you've done? Maybe there is something new that the doctor could try?