OH and I finally figured things out. I didn't fill you all in yesterday because I was just sooo tired. We had called it quits on Tuesday. I was packing and planning on leaving, when he FINALLY came to his senses (at like 3am, but hey, ill take it) and realized that I was very seriously leaving. He realized that I wasn't asking for that much, just a notion that things can be better and that he will (and wants to) work on us so we can get to where we need to be. Phew.
He has an appointment on Friday with his doctor just to see where things are at, get an idea of what it will take to get pregnant naturally (or if IVF is the only answer, we'll get more info on that too) and he has agreed to donor sperm if we have to, with very little hesitations. So, HUGE improvements. I finally feel like I have my husband back after all of that. I knew that it would take him some time, but I didn't think that I would actually have to give up and walk away to get him to realize. Just really thankful that it all worked out in the end.
I was looking on etsy and pinterest last night and found a ring that I loved (a diamond eternity band) and he goes "maybe you need an early push present, as an "I'm sorry I was a dick'" Diamonds DO make everything better
He came to his senses. I have two kittens left! They're both female, both rescued at the abandoned KFC and they're very similar coloring/size so I believe they are sisters. They're about 10-12 weeks old. One is grey/cream/white (Peanut) and the other is almost all grey with cream splotches and cream colored 'eyebrows' (Princess). Peanut is more of a lover. She's vocal and will trill and come jumping in your lap. She loves to give headbutts and loves attention and kisses, but also likes to be independent and play. Princess isn't as much of a lover. She never really comes up to you to get love- but when you go to her she obviously enjoys it so I think she's just a bit stubborn. She likes to pick on the other kittens and 'beats them up' (playfully). She can be really rambunctious and entertaining. She LOVES the laser pointer toy and is HILARIOUS with it lol. Ill take pics later tonight and send them to you.
Yaaaay Amanda i'm so glad you and DH are working on it!
Nichole- Pics or it didn't happen!!! Lol
Nikki- you're soooo close! How exciting!
