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{CLOSED GROUP} Journey to BFP and Beyond!

I conceived this baby on a cd10 ovulation! (Well cd 10 bd and cd20 bfp not sure when exactly o was)
 
Ok that makes me feel better. I guess I ovulated early because AF was so short. Just makes me wonder if the egg is really mature after only 10 days??
 
You guys are too quiet on here. Where is everyone?!?!

Had an adventurous day today. Ended up at my OB/GYN for a breast exam. Ugh. One of my breasts have been sore for several months (ok since March). I, at first, attributed it to exercising (doing planks, lifting weights, pushups, etc) and that it was just the muscle being sore. Only I haven't don't those things at all this summer. Then when I got out of the shower yesterday I noticed it just looks very different. I won't go into detail. They did a self exam and wanted me to get a mammogram but said I needed to get my period first to be sure I wasn't pregnant. Of course in my head I'm thinking that I've had cancer all along and this is the reason I can't get pregnant. I love how my mind works. So it's been a whirlwind of a day. My luck I will get pregnant this cycle and have some type of cancer. Then what?! Sorry to be Debbie Downer. Hopefully this is absolutely nothing.

Hope everyone else is having a good day. HAPPY WEEKEND!!
 
Hi Katie, it has been awfully quiet around here! I will share something, I try not to over post or share too much about my pregnancy because I want to be sensitive...I know when I hadn't gotten another bfp yet and a couple other ladies had I was so excited for them but every woman handles it differently...

I really hope it's nothing serious, I know *typically* breast cancer don't present with pain if that makes you feel any better. Let us know, although I guess it will probably be a couple weeks if you don't get your bfp this cycle huh?

How's everyone else?
 
Katie - How scary. :( When is your mammogram? I really hope it's nothing, but it will be a relief I'm sure.

Jamie - Fun shoot! How are you feeling?

AFM.. 2nd trimester has been rough. This weekend I had a debilitating migraine and I am having a hard to time eating. I get so sick trying to eat and yet I am soo hungry. My DH is getting me some vege juices. Hopefully that will help.
 
Holy moly, Zay!! You're already in your second trimester?! That seems like it flew by fast.

And Jamie you only have 11 weeks left? Yeesh I can't believe how fast everyone's pregnancy is going. How is the back to school stuff going for your kiddos? So far, it's been smooth sailing here, though the evenings are tough as everyone is exhausted and the beds are calling our names. I miss the summer schedule of staying in your PJs until whenever you want.

I am 5 DPO. I am actually feeling good about this cycle. More so than any other cycle. I'm going to test sometime this weekend. It's very unlike me to test early, but I kind of want to this time. If we are not successful this time around, then we will definitely be done with the OPKs and tracking my cycle. I'm just tired of it all and am ready for a break. It will be odd if I get a BFP at this point. This time last year I was JUST finding out I was pregnant. So if I'm pregnant this time around I will essentially be due the same time I was supposed to be due the first time. It will be a little eerie for me.

Hope everyone else is well!
 
Thanks Zay, it was lots of fun! I'm feeling pretty good overall. I will say my 2nd trimester this time around was also pretty rough :/ what's up with that?! Haha :) hope you get some relief soon!!!

Katie-I'm glad you're feeling better about it, I hope you find peace no matter what happens :) it is pretty crazy to think about how fast it's going by, I technically have close to 11 weeks like you said but I think and so does my midwife that he will come closer to 7 1/2-8 weeks from now!!!! It's pretty surreal, I think I had already suspected I was going to lose the baby by the beginning of November because of my 1st ultra sound and now I will most likely be having this baby before November or atleast very early November!

How's everyone else? Natalie? Kylee? Was Leigh taking a break as well? I know Terissa is.
 
Kate, I hope it is nothing! Please keep us updated.

I am alive. I have been ridiculously busy at work with an upcoming suicide prevention conference I am hosting. All of the last minute stuff is really taking up some time!!!! I like to keep my desk FAIRLY free of clutter, but it looks like a paper shredder exploded in my office right now.

We have been working hard on the nursery, so I'll post pics when I am on my phone. Time is going by really fast. Our cafeteria lady said to me this morning, "You are definitely having a boy. You are so big!" and I just gave her like the saddest face ever. And of course she said, "not like that! Just your belly!" She didn't mean any harm, but I was totally admiring how cute my bump was this morning and I now feel like a whale! And then she just started rubbing my belly, which is super off-putting for me. I don't like to be touched! lol. Interesting start to my day, to say the least.

Hope everyone else is doing well!
 
Kylee-glad you're alive lol! Sounds like you've been busy :) don't let people's comments bother you, I'm sure you look beautiful, I also am not fond of the belly rubs but oh well ;)
 
I am good with the belly rubs as long as I know and like the person. But seriously...I don't get why people do that when they don't know you! Soooo my once optimistic attitude about getting a BFP has gone out the window. As I look back over the past months I just don't see how we could have done things different. Maybe we truly aren't meant to have any more. I was going to test on Saturday but I just don't think I can. A negative test right now would be too much. I have my post op on Wednesday, so we'll definitely be talking about next steps at that point. I don't know what else there's left to do besides an IUI or IVF (which IVF is out of the question - we just don't have the $$ for that). Maybe my eggs are bad? I'm only 32 so how could it be that? I know the laparoscopy showed everything from a fertility standpoint to be fine, but how could it be? What is being overlooked?
 
I am out! Good luck to all you ladies - hoping great things for you all! If anyone would like to keep in touch, shoot me your email address or Facebook name (I'm not currently on Facebook, but when I do get back on I will find you!).

Thanks for following me and helping me in this journey! It has been a wild ride and one I hope will have a happy ending one day
 
I am out! Good luck to all you ladies - hoping great things for you all! If anyone would like to keep in touch, shoot me your email address or Facebook name (I'm not currently on Facebook, but when I do get back on I will find you!).

Thanks for following me and helping me in this journey! It has been a wild ride and one I hope will have a happy ending one day

Sorry Katie :( I would love to keep in touch! My email is [email protected] and my Facebook name is Jamie wright
 
Hello! Been thinking of you ladies a lot but the Internet connection at home is SOOOO bad that I haven't logged on for a while. Logged in at work just now just to check how everyone's doing.

Haven't had time to read all the posts I've missed, just wanted to say hi but will try to log on again later.
 
Katie... I am so sorry. I understand your decision though.

Lots of love to you and your family. xoxo
 
Sorry I've been quiet, was away to a wedding for the weekend.

Some days.. I feel pregnant.. others I don't. Work has been stressful and I'm trying to figure out if I should be going on the same path or change direction.. so it's stressful all around. I feel like I've been complaining for the past year about how things are so stressful. I think I've slipped into a little bit of depression.

My next appointment is at 18 weeks. I think this is just a blood test/check up? How often does everyone see their doc?
 
Hello! Been thinking of you ladies a lot but the Internet connection at home is SOOOO bad that I haven't logged on for a while. Logged in at work just now just to check how everyone's doing.

Haven't had time to read all the posts I've missed, just wanted to say hi but will try to log on again later.
Hi Fleur! Definitely stop by when you get a chance to chat some more! How've you been?

Sorry I've been quiet, was away to a wedding for the weekend.

Some days.. I feel pregnant.. others I don't. Work has been stressful and I'm trying to figure out if I should be going on the same path or change direction.. so it's stressful all around. I feel like I've been complaining for the past year about how things are so stressful. I think I've slipped into a little bit of depression.

My next appointment is at 18 weeks. I think this is just a blood test/check up? How often does everyone see their doc?

Zay, I know what you mean! Don't get down on yourself, all of us have been through our fair share of stress, some more than others but try to remember your little bean is going to be here before you know it! I of course was every 4 weeks up until my 3rd tri at which point I started going every 2 weeks, my next appointment is next Thursday :)
 
Hi guys! Just popping on to see how everyone is doing.

Nat, have you had any appointments yet?

Thinking of you guys... Hope everyone is doing well.
 
No not yet but I have contacted the midwife yesterday to arrange an appointment, so it will probably be next Monday. Mostly seeing her for a referral for morphology scan.
Have been feeling loads of movement already, and have finished crocheting two pairs of rainbo booties and debating if I'm done my rainbow baby blanket or if I'll do one more rainbow.
 
I was wondering when someone would post again! It's been too quiet on here lately! I had a bit of a scare yesterday, I woke up and wiped after using the restroom and I had a ton of mucous (sorry tmi) my midwife is sure it was part of my plug, I've also been having more pressure than normal and I felt like baby had dropped which is not common this early in subsequent pregnancies. Anyhow baby is doing fine and I was just told to rest more so I'm hoping to hold out until atleast 36 weeks but 38 weeks.
 

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