confused

[lopsypops]

Basically I'm roughly 9dpo, don't temp or use opks as I hate them lol. I usually have sore boobs from a couple of days after ovulation until af turns up. But this month they killed at 1dpo until today (af isn't due til 9th feb) also keep getting pinchy stabbing pains on my right ovary area. Did a test today and of course it was a bfn.... too early?
Basically just wanted to know if any ladies that had got their bfp had this or of I'm just clutching at straws.
Seriously this ttc milarky is hard work!! Almost a year ttc #2 and im almost ready to give up

 

[Dill]

9dpo can definitely be too early to test positive, even if you're pregnant, and it may even be too early for implantation to have occurred (which can happen as late as 12dpo). Test again in a couple of days!

 

[Buffyx]

I'd say 9dpo is too early.
I was getting weird symptoms at around 6/7dpo and thought I could be pregnant, and I didn't get my BFP until AF was due. Good luck