Considering at-home insemination with donor sperm...?

@Luna- CUTE belly pics!! <3 This is weird, but I've been reading posts from the beginning these last few days- posts from 2009- so to me, it looks like you went from all the struggles in the beginning to your cute 30 wk belly. So happy for you!
 
Yeah JAZZ, my last PG in July, that was the case with me and my breathing, take it easy Hun!

HAJ, donations are very reliable if you two go that route, check out my journal for TMI details! :dust:

TTC SEPT, good luck Hun! Let's get this TTW started! :dust:

AFM...PLEASE stalk my chart.... 7DPO , the worst night of sleep. I was so hot, DW woke me because I was sweating and said I could turn fan on me. Twinges galore as well... I soooo hope this is some sign of a BFP. Tomorrow is last day of temping, I am not going to temp past 8DPO. Going to do all I can NOT to SS unless it is something like nausea and super sore bbs (none as of now.) I hope I am blessed to join my brother this month with a BFP. Well:shrug:...watching my chart closely.... :paper: WAITING.... GL FXD!:dust:

Praying for your Bfp... that sweating was a big sign for me man i thought i was going through early menopause hoping all these signs leads up to your christmas present
 
Seriously, how do you guys survive??

I just BARELY finalized 3 days ago with the IFs and started on this journey, just got my IUD out this morning, and I'm already banging my head against the wall wishing this would move along faster. :wacko: Every day is the longest day ever. I'm obsessed! What do you do to distract yourself and have a normal life??

Try and take each day as it comes hun, one day at a time. Of course I'm saying this but A, it comes from THE most impatient person on the planet and B, I haven't started insem yet.... I know I'm going to be a state after insem until testing :rofl:
 
Hoping everyone that celebrated Thanksgiving enjoyed themselves!

I have been MIA, just busy cooking, cleaning, TTC, etc... I am back.

:wave: to the newcomers!! Hope you get that BFP soon!

:hugs: to those AF flew in on!

CONGRATS on any missed BFPs!!! Wishing you a H&H 9 mos!!

AFM...Stalk my chart.... 6DPO (FF changed 1 day today), I had a doc appt today. Not much info, no bloodwork because I am TTC and only 6DPO and I could possibly be implanting, but made an appt for 3 weeks from now as my cycles have been crazy since July MC. So we shall see. I am not going to temp past 8DPO so 2 days is it (temp declining now) and I don't know if I am going to SS unless it is something like nausea and super sore bbs (none as of now.) Last night I had to sleep with the fan as I was sooo hot! And on Friday, I slept for like 17 hours, Saturday I slept for about 12hours. I am having some weird cramping today so my nerves are bad. As well, last night, by brother, announced that they are pregnant, again, my nephew turns 1 tomorrow. I of course was and am happy but was soooo like man, when am I going to be blessed again.... However LIKEAUSTRALIA got her BFP so I am so very happy and concetrating on that. Well:shrug:...watching my chart closely.... :paper: WAITING.... GL FXD!:dust:


Well I don't need a donor I have Dh lol. But I'm hoping this method works!!

That's awesome... I hope it works for you as well :dust:
 
2MOMMIES, you should use the temp adujuster in cases like that. That way you can use the correct temp. GL :dust:

TICKING, sounds like OV approaching.... GL

:wave: Hi PUURPLE, I don't know how I have made it this long actually... I think I am on cycle 27 or 28, don't know.... GL

LUNA, loooove the bump pics!

JAZZ, thanks Girl! How are you? The sickness leaving yet?

AFM...Stalk my chart.... 8DPO, I felt so cold last night, but DW said I felt hot, temp doesn't suggest I was cold. Last day I am tracking temp, don't care to see the numbers drop. No SS to report really. Not sure why, but feeling like I am out.... Well...:shrug: :paper: WAITING.... GL FXD!:dust:
 
ladies can you look at these pics...........

https://i245.photobucket.com/albums/gg63/hebs_1978/049.jpg

https://i245.photobucket.com/albums/gg63/hebs_1978/057.jpg


the IC OPK is the strongest i've had yet EVER, but clearblue still says neg, going to test again at 9pm
 
Yeah I would say you're getting close! I can't really see the ic's though x
 
just done another clearblue and got a smiley face :happydance::happydance:
donor coming tomorrow morning that will be ok wont it???

https://i245.photobucket.com/albums/gg63/hebs_1978/0042.jpg
 
To those of you who have used preseed: Do you think it really helps? From the website info, it just looks like a safe lubricant, as opposed to KY which is harmful to sperm. Does it do more than that, like help it survive longer or something?
 
Ticking~ Gotta love that smilely face! :D Tomorrow morning should be fine, good luck and catch that eggy!!! :dust:

Purple~ According to preseed's website, it does help sperm survive but unfortunately it doesn't say for how long. =/ That would have been helpful to put that info in their leaflet, if they even attempted to study the survival length. Personal experience; didn't help with a 2 day cut off, so hopefully with better timing, preseed will help. Overall, l do like it and would continue using it.
 
Hi everyone! I'm going to tell my story and hope that it encourages and helps all of you!

My husband was diagnosed with azoospermia. We couldn't afford any of the medical procedures that MAY be able to help and with my husband's specific condition and reason for azoospermia, there was nothing we could do. :nope:

Then we started looking into adoption and costs... wow! We had some money to save and some work to do on the house (it's a little hard to get approved with a house under construction).

During a holiday weekend, we were spending time with our best "couple" friends. I was talking with the wife about our situation, she said "I wish we could just use Matt's (her husband) stuff and just get it in you!" When I told her about home artificial insemination, she offered me her husband! lol! She talked to him about it later and they approached us to offer us this amazing gift! I understand that this may seem very strange to a lot of people, that we know our donor, that he is married with children and that he is our friend, but for us it was like "of course!" It just clicked, it was exactly what we were supposed to do, we just knew it. :dance:

We did the home insemination a few times, blindly because I hadn't tracked my cycle using OPKs yet. After 3 months of using OPKs, I never saw a positive. I went to an infertility specialist and she did an internal ultrasound. Coincidentally, she was able to confirm that I was about to ovulate and told us to inseminate the following 2 days.

Well, we inseminated. And..... 2 weeks later, BFP! :bfp:

I'm honestly still completely in shock and don't quite believe it. I've taken at least 10 pregnancy tests, used a timer (in case of evap lines) and used 3 different brands! I'm a bit obsessed...

So, here's exactly how we did it.

We went to the donor's house (I have little shame and figured he would rather do that at his house than ours). He would go to his room, do his thing into a sterile plastic cup, then suck it up with a clean, needle-less syringe. He would bring it to me and leave the room. I just laid on their couch and inserted it. Now, TMI alert, like I said, no shame. When I inserted it, I did it slow because a few times I did it fast and it just sort of shot out. Also, it's totally normal if some comes out shortly after, it might drip down your butt a bit too. Then I just stayed on the couch for about 30 minutes. One time, my husband and I drove home and did it there, so I could have an orgasm. We have read that this may help. I noticed that a LOT more came out when I did this. I don't know if this would affect anything, remember it only takes one little guy! :spermy:

It worked for us and I hope this helps answer some of your questions. I'm happy to answer any questions you have, so please ask! Nothing is silly or weird and I'll go into as much detail as you'd like! :D
 
Congratulations hun and thanks for sharing your story! You and hubby must be made up! :hugs: xxx
 
To those of you who have used preseed: Do you think it really helps? From the website info, it just looks like a safe lubricant, as opposed to KY which is harmful to sperm. Does it do more than that, like help it survive longer or something?

I'm not sure with pre seed hun, I will be using conceive plus as I have quite a hostile envioroment down there *ahem :blush:* it says on their website that it mimics EWCM so.... we'll see what happens. I know a lot of people swear by that an preseed:thumbup:

I managed to get a CBFM really cheep on ebay the other day so im hoping the little guys wont have to wait around too long lol
 
2MOMMIES, you should use the temp adujuster in cases like that. That way you can use the correct temp. GL :dust:

TICKING, sounds like OV approaching.... GL

:wave: Hi PUURPLE, I don't know how I have made it this long actually... I think I am on cycle 27 or 28, don't know.... GL

LUNA, loooove the bump pics!

JAZZ, thanks Girl! How are you? The sickness leaving yet?

AFM...Stalk my chart.... 8DPO, I felt so cold last night, but DW said I felt hot, temp doesn't suggest I was cold. Last day I am tracking temp, don't care to see the numbers drop. No SS to report really. Not sure why, but feeling like I am out.... Well...:shrug: :paper: WAITING.... GL FXD!:dust:

Nausea is gone except if i eat something that doesnt agree with me. Baby kicking and now the wife can feel the little kicks i find out the sex dec 29 unless i pay for the 3d/4d sonogram. Doing better getting bigger in the belly.
going to the heart dr on dec 8 they think my heart may be too large. cause i see spots and get dizzy everytime i stand up. but all is well
 
Donor pulled out yesterday, his wife has left him :shock: Understandably he's got too much on his plate to carry on with donating right now. I have a back-up donor I can email to ask if he's available tomorrow and Monday (CD14 and CD17) but I'm pretty sure it's too short notice :dohh: Wish me luck ladies! xx
 
Donor pulled out yesterday, his wife has left him :shock: Understandably he's got too much on his plate to carry on with donating right now. I have a back-up donor I can email to ask if he's available tomorrow and Monday (CD14 and CD17) but I'm pretty sure it's too short notice :dohh: Wish me luck ladies! xx

~Oh no!! poor man!

Poor you, what a nightmare! good luck! x
 

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