Considering at-home insemination with donor sperm...?

hello all,

no real news. Today i had some wierd yellow/ light brown cm and cramps but it just felt like my AF was going to come any second. That feeling you get.

i hope you all have a lovely new years eve. I am sat i bed with the husband watching films on my laptop. bless him.

lots of love to you all - i know 2012 will be THE year for us all

xxxx
 
Lovely line there. congrats.

Sounds like old blood happy so hopefully all is ok.
 
Congrats purplepanda, a happy and healthy 9 months to you!
 
Happy~ Sending tons of sticky bean dust your way!!! :hugs:

Purple~ YAY!!!! Congrats and H&H 9 months you!!!! :happydance::happydance::happydance:
 
Just popping in to say hello (and congrats to purple panda) hoping I'll be welcome here we've found our donor and will he TTC next month. I'm not sure how I feel at the moment we've been planning this for a long time and my desire to have a child has never been stronger but I'm truly scared so many things to think about.
 
Welcome Robbins and good luck for next month :thumbup:
 
Hi There
I'm a newbie. Last night DH and I tried artifical insemination with a syringe for the first time. I just wanted advice because I've had cramps ever since and just wondered - is this normal. Has this happened to anyone else? I hope its ok for me to post in this thread. L x
 
Welcome loribelle :hi:

I know there are a few ladies in this thread who have mentioned cramping after insemination, can't recall names off the top of my head but I know it has been mentioned so nothing to worry about. Lots of :dust: to you, hope you have a good 2 week wait :thumbup:
 
woohoo congratulations purplepanda xx

Have any of you used conceive plus? I bought some from Boots and don't know whether to syringe it inside or just to put some on my finger and insert. Most reviews I've read have been by couples. I've only got one syringe in the flat and don't want to clog it up. I should be inseming this afternoon (if my donor remembers lol)

:dust: :dust: to everyone xx
 
I used conceive plus and just applied with my finger.I did then forget I owned it though and only used it once Doh.

Good luck..... x
 
Thanks Happy, I'll use my finger, I don't know all this stuff we women do haha.
 
HAPPY NEW YEAR LADIES!!! :happydance:

CONGRATS PURPLEPANDA!! Wishing you a H&H 9 mos!!!


Welcome :wave: ROBBINS and LORIBELLE.

ROBBINS, no worries you will and are already welcome here Hun! :dust:


GL FXD! :dust: LORIBELLE! No worries, I don't use syringe anymore, but there is nothing to worrya bout, you are doing fine.


AFM... Happy New Year! I am temping again, YAY! AF should be here in a couple days if she follows schedule so I will be back in this race soon with OV around the 18th. I can't wait to POAS! I get my OPKs and HPTs tonight in the mail, I have been tracking the package. Let's get these BFPs rolling ladies:dust:
 
happy~ any news? fingers crossed for your sticky bean :)

panda~~ yay! congrats!! :happydance:

Welcome Robbins and Loribelle!! so glad to have u with us..best of luck to ya both!! :flower:

mrsmm~~catch that eggy! baby dust your way!! :)

afm~~4dpo and no symptoms...yet...lol I'm trying to behave and not obsess about not having symptoms lol

baby dust to all!!
 
Thank you Sparklie, and good luck xxx

also quick question.. has anyone ever had success with donor sperm that has been transported for up to an hour? ive read that it can survive this long, but Im wondering if it definitely does. Obviously, its better to use it asap but when you have to go to pick it up then get home to inseminate, its not always possible for some women. I would not feel comfortable having a donor come to my home, and I wouldnt want to do the proceedure anywhere else than home. So its my only option.

thank you xxx
 
one of the girls my donor helped left it an hour and got preg on first try.

try to keep it at body temp and good luck
 
I have used hour old sperm and although I didn't get pregnant I still think it's okay.

I've copied this from a donation site

A common question often asked by sperm donors and their recipients
is: “How long do sperm live after ejaculation?” This question is not a
simple one to answer as the biology of a living sperm is complex.
There’s been a lot of misinformation published on this question on
several websites.

Some people have said semen lives about two
hours after ejaculation, and starts dying immediately after ejaculation.
Others have said that the container of sperm should be kept “at body
temperature, ideally close to the human body in a bra”. These
answers are, at best, not very accurate.

Here’s a more accurate answer to the question. To understand how
long a semen sample will live, it’s necessary to think in terms of the
biology of a single, healthy, sperm. When a sperm is first ejaculated, it
contains a power pack of chemical energy. You can think of this
power pack as a mini (AA-type) battery. As the sperm swims around,
the battery’s power is used up – like petrol/diesel is used in a car.
Once the battery has been fully discharged, the sperm can swim no
further and dies. If a sperm is relatively cold, say around 12 degC, it
won’t swim much so the battery is conserved and the sperm will
survive for quite a while. If a sperm is at body temperature (38 degC)
it’ll swim around a lot, and the battery won’t last very long – perhaps
2-3 hours maximum. At room temperature (22 degC) a sperm will
swim a bit, but not a huge amount, and its battery may last up to 8
hours. So there’s no simple answer to how long a sperm will live after
ejaculation. Your best bet is probably to keep the semen sample at
room temperature and inject it within two hours of its ejaculation. Here
are some hard facts:

· If a semen sample becomes very hot (above body
temperature at 38 degC) the sperm won’t live long at all – less
than one hour.
· If a semen sample becomes very cold and freezes solid, the
entire sample can be considered dead. The same is true, of
course, if the sample dries out. Sperm donor clinics are able
to freeze sperm because their samples are mixed with an antifreeze
agent (called a “cryoprotectant”).
· It’s not at all necessary (or a good idea) to keep a semen
sample at body temperature for the sample to survive after
ejaculation. Body temperature is an ideal swimming
temperature for a sperm, so keeping a sample at this
temperature will exhaust the sperm pretty quickly.
· One of the main factors influencing the potency of a sample is
sperm count. This varies a lot between sperm donors – chain
 
I hope you all don't mind me dropping in. I'm on my 4th cycle TTC and have had 3 failed IUIs with frozen sperm. I'm considering trying an at home insemination with fresh sperm, if I can find a compatible donor in time.

I know it's probably in the thread somewhere, but with 500+ pages, that's a lot to read! :) Any tips for first time at home inseminators?

Thanks and baby dust to all!

:dust:
 
Welcome Christie :hi: good luck with finding a donor

This thread is quite helpful, all the ladies who have been successful with AI have posted how they did it - hope it helps some :thumbup:

https://www.babyandbump.com/assiste...-artificial-insemination-success-stories.html

AFM, CD1 woohoo!! Got a good donor lined up, I'm having to travel quite a way to him and stay in a hotel for the night for 2 donations but it'll be worth it for that BFP! 2 of the ladies on here have met him so I know he's reliable. Travelling up on the 17th, can't wait to get started again!!
 

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