hi...
so OH and i have been ttc #2 since April. and well...OH is depressed. He's going to be starting counselling and he's on medication but...well. he's really hard to deal with atm. I know its his depression, but as a recovering depressed myself (off my pills as of April!) I'm really struggling to hold it together whilst TTC. I'm DESPERATE for a baby...but I dont feel like I'll get the support I'll need during my pregnancy from OH as he is now...and having had depression and pre eclampsia before I'll be more likely to develop either during my next pregnancy.
i also really dont feel like DTD with him lately...like we'll fight and we'll get over it...but after a fight I dont feel like DTD for like a day lol. I'm very emotional. but he's very into the 'makeup sex' thing and gets PO'ed whenever I say no...which leads to another fight...
I so badly don't want to stop TTC...cos I've been desperate for another baby for like a year now...and I want DD to have a sibling well...before she's 3 ideally (she turns 2 in 2 weeks)...but i dont know if I have a choice at the moment which devastates me i just dont know what to do
so OH and i have been ttc #2 since April. and well...OH is depressed. He's going to be starting counselling and he's on medication but...well. he's really hard to deal with atm. I know its his depression, but as a recovering depressed myself (off my pills as of April!) I'm really struggling to hold it together whilst TTC. I'm DESPERATE for a baby...but I dont feel like I'll get the support I'll need during my pregnancy from OH as he is now...and having had depression and pre eclampsia before I'll be more likely to develop either during my next pregnancy.
i also really dont feel like DTD with him lately...like we'll fight and we'll get over it...but after a fight I dont feel like DTD for like a day lol. I'm very emotional. but he's very into the 'makeup sex' thing and gets PO'ed whenever I say no...which leads to another fight...
I so badly don't want to stop TTC...cos I've been desperate for another baby for like a year now...and I want DD to have a sibling well...before she's 3 ideally (she turns 2 in 2 weeks)...but i dont know if I have a choice at the moment which devastates me i just dont know what to do